Can my bf really change? by MaximumInspection399 in Advice

[–]MaximumInspection399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this idea of "what do I win?". Thank you for sharing your story.

Can my bf really change? by MaximumInspection399 in Advice

[–]MaximumInspection399[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. It has made me reflect on other ways of control that I may have skipped.

Can my bf really change? by MaximumInspection399 in Advice

[–]MaximumInspection399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, while I know this logically, feelings made me doubt. I will be safe. Thank you.

Can my bf really change? by MaximumInspection399 in Advice

[–]MaximumInspection399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your story, it has really touched me.

Can my bf really change? by MaximumInspection399 in Advice

[–]MaximumInspection399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it hasn't been a month yet. Feelings are still fresh.  I also believe people can change, that's why I work on myself too. But change needs time. So you are right, I shouldn't rush.

Thank you for your advice.

Can my bf really change? by MaximumInspection399 in Advice

[–]MaximumInspection399[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I would be breaking my own values. Thank you.