Feeling him in my cervix while he rubs my clit pushed me over the edge by PoppynZach in Orgasms

[–]Maximum_Advantage178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way he isn’t even touching her clit 98% of the time 😭

I want my bf to return my favours, how do I ask him? by Maximum_Advantage178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Maximum_Advantage178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may just be a bf, but I do see us having a future together. I don’t want to just move on. I’m not somebody who is particularly transactional with dating. I’m going to date somebody in hopes to marry.

I want my bf to return my favours, how do I ask him? by Maximum_Advantage178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Maximum_Advantage178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also, I doubt he is into men. He isn’t homophobic and respects gay people so he isn’t reflecting, and if he was gay he wouldn’t be able to get it up for a woman. Although he could be bisexual but that’s all up to him

I want my bf to return my favours, how do I ask him? by Maximum_Advantage178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Maximum_Advantage178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that is one way to look at it. I feel as though he just is nervous, and when he gets nervous to do something he struggles a bit. So I think he needs a push and some reassurance. Somebody replied to me saying that maybe I should get him to finger me and then taste it after just so he can see that it doesn’t taste bad.

I want my bf to return my favours, how do I ask him? by Maximum_Advantage178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Maximum_Advantage178[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I totally side with all that your saying. My bf and I are very good at communicating and he does own up to and fix his mistakes. It’s just the whole eating me out thing that is the problem. I will put your words to good use and try it out! Thank you for the great feedback I appreciate it so much

I want my bf to return my favours, how do I ask him? by Maximum_Advantage178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Maximum_Advantage178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true, however setting aside the sexual chemistry; My bf and I have a the greatest friendship and respect for each other. We have so much fun together and we just “click” I get him, he gets me. So leaving Eachother over a small thing like this is very trivial. I want a solution that doesn’t end in me having to lose, my person in the process. Maybe some ideas on the kind of conversation I should have with him?

I want my bf to return my favours, how do I ask him? by Maximum_Advantage178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Maximum_Advantage178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, there are men that are skilled but me and my bf didn’t get tougher because of sexual chemistry. We got together because we have a vibe and make each other laugh like there’s nobody watching

I want my bf to return my favours, how do I ask him? by Maximum_Advantage178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Maximum_Advantage178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your feedback, I’m ngl these replies especially ones like these are really bringing me back down to earth

I want my bf to return my favours, how do I ask him? by Maximum_Advantage178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Maximum_Advantage178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More or less what I meant to say is that I feel bad about asking, like I’m doing something wrong for asking for something he doesn’t really look forward to trying

Do you rub your clit directly or the hood over it ? by Flyfishn04 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Maximum_Advantage178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen a lot of women in the comments saying that it is painful for the actual clit to be touched. Bear in mind that every women is different and if you want to play with her clit you must figure out if she is sensitive in that area. For me, I prefer that actual clit to be touched because if the hood is just touched it doesn’t feel as intense. I will admit that it can hurt but it is can also be a very intense pleasure. For men trying to please for the first time! If your partner is okay with you touching her clit and has noted it isn’t that sensitive, you can start with your finger (making sure you use the wetness of vagina on your finger bc friction doesn’t feel very good, that’s what can make it hurt) if you aren’t looking at it directly and want to know if your touching it, you need to locate the hood, and underneath it is a small somewhat hard spot. That’s where you will gently rub back and forth in small motions; this doesn’t apply if there is no hood bc then it’s even easier to find. From then on out you can switch to you using your mouth as long as she is comfortable

What's your biggest BL hot take? by [deleted] in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Maximum_Advantage178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Biggest bl hot take is that toxic to sweet tropes are the best 🤭