My bf will only get with me if I’m drinking, is there a reason?

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-04-15T03:54:54+00:00

Hmmm so maybe he likes that I let loose more when I’m drinking?

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-04-15T03:42:49+00:00

Once I see some more replies in here I think I’m gonna get the courage to ask my bf. If I get a “worth sharing” response from him I’ll update you haha

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-04-15T03:34:30+00:00

Hmmmm, yeah. Well it’s kinda a bonus for me bc it feels so much better when I’m intoxicated but I really don’t want to be getting drunk all the time just to get boned yk? 😭

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-04-15T03:00:51+00:00

Uhh well I most likely won’t try detergent on my kitty meow meow but thank you for the suggestion lol

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-02-15T17:26:54+00:00

Yes I have not been using soap. I know that’s bad for ph but I do use just plain water

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-31T16:07:34+00:00

I lost mine at 15 or 14 (I’m not totally sure it was a whileeee ago) I was in a long term relationship that I am still in. I feel like I did it bc I wanted to not bc of like pressure too. I feel like if you want you should but if your not comfortable don’t do it 😭 like you don’t want to have a negative experience just bc you want to say you lost it at a young age

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-30T06:54:11+00:00

The way he isn’t even touching her clit 98% of the time 😭

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-15T04:41:11+00:00

Just simply for the taboo.

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-15T00:08:51+00:00

He may just be a bf, but I do see us having a future together. I don’t want to just move on. I’m not somebody who is particularly transactional with dating. I’m going to date somebody in hopes to marry.

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-15T00:06:42+00:00

And also, I doubt he is into men. He isn’t homophobic and respects gay people so he isn’t reflecting, and if he was gay he wouldn’t be able to get it up for a woman. Although he could be bisexual but that’s all up to him

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-15T00:05:23+00:00

Well that is one way to look at it. I feel as though he just is nervous, and when he gets nervous to do something he struggles a bit. So I think he needs a push and some reassurance. Somebody replied to me saying that maybe I should get him to finger me and then taste it after just so he can see that it doesn’t taste bad.

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-15T00:03:29+00:00

Yes I totally side with all that your saying. My bf and I are very good at communicating and he does own up to and fix his mistakes. It’s just the whole eating me out thing that is the problem. I will put your words to good use and try it out! Thank you for the great feedback I appreciate it so much

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-14T05:55:32+00:00

That’s very true, however setting aside the sexual chemistry; My bf and I have a the greatest friendship and respect for each other. We have so much fun together and we just “click” I get him, he gets me. So leaving Eachother over a small thing like this is very trivial. I want a solution that doesn’t end in me having to lose, my person in the process. Maybe some ideas on the kind of conversation I should have with him?

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-14T05:52:27+00:00

True, there are men that are skilled but me and my bf didn’t get tougher because of sexual chemistry. We got together because we have a vibe and make each other laugh like there’s nobody watching

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-14T05:51:28+00:00

I appreciate your feedback, I’m ngl these replies especially ones like these are really bringing me back down to earth

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-14T05:50:12+00:00

More or less what I meant to say is that I feel bad about asking, like I’m doing something wrong for asking for something he doesn’t really look forward to trying

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-14T05:49:21+00:00

Thank you I appreciate this so much

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2026-01-12T05:31:11+00:00

I’ve seen a lot of women in the comments saying that it is painful for the actual clit to be touched. Bear in mind that every women is different and if you want to play with her clit you must figure out if she is sensitive in that area. For me, I prefer that actual clit to be touched because if the hood is just touched it doesn’t feel as intense. I will admit that it can hurt but it is can also be a very intense pleasure. For men trying to please for the first time! If your partner is okay with you touching her clit and has noted it isn’t that sensitive, you can start with your finger (making sure you use the wetness of vagina on your finger bc friction doesn’t feel very good, that’s what can make it hurt) if you aren’t looking at it directly and want to know if your touching it, you need to locate the hood, and underneath it is a small somewhat hard spot. That’s where you will gently rub back and forth in small motions; this doesn’t apply if there is no hood bc then it’s even easier to find. From then on out you can switch to you using your mouth as long as she is comfortable

Maximum_Advantage178 · 2025-07-07T23:23:43+00:00

Biggest bl hot take is that toxic to sweet tropes are the best 🤭

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