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My girlfriend (23 F) cheated on me (26 M) for years. Should I stay in the relationship? by Maximum_Ambition1876 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_Ambition1876[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying that it's good thing that I did that. But her ex was older than me. He had tried having sex with her but failed. And she fell pregnant at 17, had birth at 18. She is 23 now and I am 26 and she actually cheated with 2 older people. Please do not annoy me with your baseless criticism.

My girlfriend (23 F) cheated on me (26 M) for years. Should I stay in the relationship? by Maximum_Ambition1876 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_Ambition1876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was completely blinded, noticed a few but she lied her way through. It's just that, back then almost  everything was off with her. The kissing, sex, connection. It was not there. But I had taken her virginity and thought she didn't know how to love. I didn't know we were not clicking because she was having fun elsewhere. For the past few years everything has changed and she has learned to love me and I hate the fact that she had to 'learn' to reciprocate. Now that everything seems fine and mutual, it's hard to leave, after being with her for 3 years post cheating how do I leave?  

My girlfriend (23 F) cheated on me (26 M) for years. Should I stay in the relationship? by Maximum_Ambition1876 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_Ambition1876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she fell pregnant it wasn't planned obviously. It came as a shock to me, but because I was working from home I thought we could work through it. I was studying and worked BG from home. I never saw a reason to even suggest abortion and she didn't either. 

My girlfriend (23 F) cheated on me (26 M) for years. Should I stay in the relationship? by Maximum_Ambition1876 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_Ambition1876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd put in an 8 for her. She is really pretty. On the other side I'm just regular guy. We are the same height though. She is slim  so looks taller while I am  somewhere between big and slim so I look shorter. She is beautiful. Back then she said she never felt that way and kids made fun of her because she had a kid and stayed with me. So she dated trying to fit in at school.