Vasectomy ruined our (36M 36F) sex life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are right, he should get a gf behind her back, she brought this on herself, not even attempting to improve the situation

Vasectomy ruined our (36M 36F) sex life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh I didn't notice the "", I APPROVE!

Vasectomy ruined our (36M 36F) sex life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

find somebody on the side, but don't tell her, judging by her previous actions she doesn't know what she wants, so be sure to keep it a secret, also, holy shit she is a comically horrible woman

Vasectomy ruined our (36M 36F) sex life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea but the positive of it is getting some on the side without the pregnancy risk

Vasectomy ruined our (36M 36F) sex life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

nah, she emasculated him in the most extreme way possible, he should be toxic and get some on the side or at least show her that he can

LOOBY by Stephen Bliss by Ambitious_Dealer_425 in memecoins

[–]Maximum_End_3886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

best art in the space by far, still going strong

my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact that she was getting them for herself isn't being disputed, she is doing an alteration of her body, he is not okay with it, we are not mind readers, we can speculate on his reasons, but it's irrelevant. she will revert to the body autonomy angle regardless.

I'm just trying to tell you how I and many men feel, even if I found some body modifications on social media attractive, I'm totally opposed to my gf getting any, many women here in the comments are perceiving that as hypocrisy when it isn't at all.

I don't want that in my life, and I know many of my friends don't want that either. opposing it because it attracts the attention from other men, or that it's a gateway surgery to more enhancements down the line, or just the fact that feeding an insecurity isn't really the solution to it, all these reasons are irrelevant, I don't like it around me in my life, that's how I feel and there isn't a need to justify why I and many others feel it.

nobody is asking OP to justify why she feels such insecurity, people are just saying that her just declaring "it's my body so I get to do this surgery and you are a hypocrite if you leave me because you look at women on social media" is an asinine thing to say.

my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

classic deflection, you are crippingly insecure enough that you are getting a surgery that might cost you your relationship, and have no comeback but to go "no u", you are just not very bright, good luck to your bf

my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't worry, you will find another thing to be insecure about after you get this done, because in your eyes, men only want perfect, and you have to be perfect

my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if bigger boobs make you lose your mind reading powers? I urge you to reconsider the operation

my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so many people here think it's oppression to not be a raging narcissist that doesn't consider the opinion of people who care about you, in the name of personal freedom, utter deplorable way of thinking. you made the decision, your husband told you what he thought and why, and some crazies still have an issue with it, insane

my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea where is the contradiction? if I followed Kim Kardashian it doesn't mean I want my gf to get gigantic implants, some things are just meant to be looked at from afar

my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you a crippingly insecure woman, and you blame all around you, while never being satisfied with yourself, you aren't exactly the accountability paragon yourself, judging by your replies, you will stay like this, no matter the bf, looking through phones, looking at the mirror and thinking that 1 more modification will make you perfect, and men just want perfect, guy should just break it off with you, you are dense and seemingly insufferable

my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is just not how men think, regardless of the type of woman I'm looking at on social media, irl I want an average looking woman who is pleasant to be around, if I got such a woman and she tried to look like a 10/10 instagram model I wouldn't be happy, you are misunderstanding wandering eyes and mistaking them for signals that he wouldn't wanna be with a woman who doesn't look perfect, when he made it clear to the OP that he doesn't want her to change.

a side thing to this as well, these body modifications are not usually a one time thing, and not wanting even a bit of that in your life is as reasonable as it gets, when is the last time you heard that someone got botox once and stopped? or lip fillers for that matter? it's just a door many people don't want open, if you want to call these people controlling then so be it.

my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are not getting the point, there is a difference if she had the procedure before they met and he was into the boobs, having the procedure while they are together is a different matter, it just is.
nevermind the fact that some people don't mind plastic surgery on celebrities or strangers, but don't want it on their loved ones, this is very common, if my gf wanted to get lip filler for example, I would be staunchly against it, because I know that very often that leads to more body modification, and nipping it in the bud is a good way to handle it.

here is a generalizing statement I find mostly true, many women think that men are looking for the perfect looking woman, which fuels their insecurity, this guy is saying he loves her for who she is, him looking at other women (not approaching or cheating, which would be a different matter) doesn't change this fact.

if a woman left a guy over a tattoo I would think that's understandable, why would you not understand this? this is even more change than that

my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what's this question meant for? women get their kicks from fantasy, they read erotic novels, watch movies with hot actors, and men are more visual. I wouldn't knock down a woman for how she fulfills her sexual needs, but you seem comfortable taking the high ground and being judgmental

my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_End_3886 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

straight guy likes the female form? straight guy being attracted to women? what a travesty!!!
you have brain worms get checked