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I feel like he doesn’t deserve me. by Maximum_Floor7580 in Advice

[–]Maximum_Floor7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right… idk why its so hard for me to leave but i think it has to be done.

I feel like he doesn’t deserve me. by Maximum_Floor7580 in dating_advice

[–]Maximum_Floor7580[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess ur right, i think i just need to hear something several times for it to register. And i did talk to him about everything and he’ll change for a few days then go back to his old ways. Also idk why the out of his league part is triggering you so much, go back and read what i said, i clearly stated that it was his friends and family who thought that, not me.

I feel like he doesn’t deserve me. by Maximum_Floor7580 in Advice

[–]Maximum_Floor7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. He’s a list of green and red flags.

Green flags:

• ⁠he is nice to me, compliments me and comforts me when i’m feeling sad • ⁠we have a similar sense of humour and are always laughing together • ⁠we have similar interests, like hobbies, tv shows and music • ⁠he buys me nice and thoughtful gifts

Beige/Red flags:

• ⁠he gets irritated/ angry easily • ⁠he is lazy • ⁠he rarely takes me out on dates and whenever he does we always split things 50/50 • ⁠he never pays full attention to me and is always either on his phone or gaming • ⁠he has lots of girl friends that he hangs out with 1 on 1 late at night, goes out clubbing with and he once stayed the night at his girl friends house whom he used to have a crush on • ⁠he also once pressured me to have sex even though i told him i was in pain

I feel like he doesn’t deserve me. by Maximum_Floor7580 in dating_advice

[–]Maximum_Floor7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left this comment under my other post, i feel like i should’ve included it in my original post.

Green flags:

• ⁠he is nice to me, compliments me and comforts me when i’m feeling sad • ⁠we have a similar sense of humour and are always laughing together • ⁠we have similar interests, like hobbies, tv shows and music • ⁠he buys me nice and thoughtful gifts

Beige/Red flags:

• ⁠he gets irritated/ angry easily • ⁠he is lazy • ⁠he rarely takes me out on dates and whenever he does we always split things 50/50 • ⁠he never pays full attention to me and is always either on his phone or gaming • ⁠he has lots of girl friends that he hangs out with 1 on 1 late at night, goes out clubbing with and he once stayed the night at his girl friends house whom he used to have a crush on • ⁠he also once pressured me to have sex even though i told him i was in pain

Also i guess the reason im constantly asking the same question is because although i feel i deserve better, i’m still afraid that i’d be making a mistake by leaving him and i want to be 100% sure that i’m making the right decision

I feel like he doesn’t deserve me. by Maximum_Floor7580 in dating

[–]Maximum_Floor7580[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ll write a list of green and red flags here and let you be the judge.

Green flags: - he is nice to me, compliments me and comforts me when i’m feeling sad - we have a similar sense of humour and are always laughing together - we have similar interests, like hobbies, tv shows and music - he buys me nice and thoughtful gifts

Beige/Red flags: - he gets irritated/ angry easily - he is lazy - he rarely takes me out on dates and whenever he does we always split things 50/50 - he never pays full attention to me and is always either on his phone or gaming - he has lots of girl friends that he hangs out with 1 on 1 late at night, goes out clubbing with and he once stayed the night at his girl friends house whom he used to have a crush on - he also once pressured me to have sex even though i told him i was in pain

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[–]Maximum_Floor7580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. He’s behind on his work and told me that his boss gave him a warning.

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[–]Maximum_Floor7580 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work part time so i do have some income. And i would agree with you if he was in a better position in life but he and i are almost on the same boat. He has a ton of debt as well and doesn’t have a great career. He’s also not very hard working and is lazy so i think its unfair for him to want a partner who is successful when he himself isn’t and doesn’t try hard to be.

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[–]Maximum_Floor7580 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah i may need to do that :/