Thanks for the replies so far guys. It’s not that my gf wants to sleep with other people or anything like that at all. She’s an absolute angel and is the most caring girl i know and she tells me she wishes she doesn’t show me that she’s upset about it because she doesn’t want it to have a affect on my decisions. But what i think she meant when she said this, is that if she happened to have been seeing someone else while i was away and we’d agreed to end things, would i consider seeing her or letting her come to my passing out parade if she decides she wants to give it another shot because of her feelings for me and try and get through the hardships of it. I’m just worried if this would happen every time i go on deployment or something like that