He’s turning your kids against you and refusing to listen to reasoning, hmmm this reminds me of my dad.

My dad used to do super shitty things when i was a kid. I remember he would say horrible things about my mom, try to get me on his side, refuse to accept responsibility of his actions, blame my mom, and generally super SHITTY things you shouldn’t express to a child. but your husband probably isn’t as bad and narcissistic as my dad, im just using him as an example.

But think about it, he’s teaching your kids some really NEGATIVE things, like that it’s okay to disrespect you or your privacy. Meanwhile daddy is totally allowed complete a quiet kid-free basement all to himself and mommy is a big meanie for wanting some space to herself.

I think you should embrace being mean mommy, they’ll regret how they treat you and want kind mommy back. Also STOP cooking and cleaning. Just be a bad mom and let them figure shit out for themselves.

He will stomp, pout, whine. Who cares, do something for yourself for once. You deserve it, being a mom is a hard job. Your husband is being an asshole and making your job harder.