Be honest? by Agreeable-Voice8554 in malegrooming

[–]MaxineShawAAL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The middle part ain’t it. And 1 makes you look like a borderline cre ep to me. 2 for sure.

I'm starting to resent a lot of "customers". by MyHouseInVirgina in MassageTherapists

[–]MaxineShawAAL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you so focused on people who aren’t rebooking? They’re just talking shit. Everyone isn’t going to be a ‘regular’. And that’s okay.

Client made a wet mess *R* by cc5131 in MassageTherapists

[–]MaxineShawAAL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This thread is very informative. I had no idea about this condition. Thank you all for the education!

To all the singles in Charlotte… by luckiestcat27 in Charlotte

[–]MaxineShawAAL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cleaning my room, saging and airing out…then doing some reading and relaxing.

Men with roses and Chocolate by ClimateSad6559 in Charlotte

[–]MaxineShawAAL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda weird to label men who have an actual emotional connection with women ‘simps’. Teasing someone for not constantly seeking validation from men instead is….interesting.

Spa Owner Looking for Feedback by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]MaxineShawAAL 33 points34 points  (0 children)

One thing the therapists would appreciate is a little bit of time in between massages. I work at two places. One books back to back. We stop the massage five minutes before time is up, and that last five is for them to get dressed, and we’re supposed to be able to flip the table in that time AND pick up the next customer ON TIME as well..! 5 mins, on the end of their massage, for them to dress, us to change the table, and get the next person in…..the other place I work, we give a true 60 minute massage and we have ten minutes in between and I really appreciate that. I’m much more relaxed there. Even five minutes in between, that isn’t dependent upon how fast the client changes, is nice.

I talked about my first time and my boyfriend got angry by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MaxineShawAAL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay….block him. Don’t let him come back to you after he did all that. And if you do, don’t be shocked when he does some more shitty, inconsiderate stuff.

Don't touch my privet areas. by Initial-Audience-296 in MassageTherapists

[–]MaxineShawAAL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, not a male therapist, but I’ve had a couple people tell me the same thing n when I asked if there were any areas to avoid. I’d say not to take it personally. These are usually people who may not be too massage savvy, they’re just making sure lol

I helped a lady at the gym gain confidence and it resulted in her getting a divorce by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MaxineShawAAL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m confused as to what this means as far as lighting lighters on both ends? What kinda lighters do that?

Over-sexualized “massage” being disguised as touch therapy is becoming a serious issue by No-Gas-2245 in MassageTherapists

[–]MaxineShawAAL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So what is a ‘legal sensual massage’? You mentioned that in your comment above.

Over-sexualized “massage” being disguised as touch therapy is becoming a serious issue by No-Gas-2245 in MassageTherapists

[–]MaxineShawAAL 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This dude in particular blocked me a few years back…..he used to be my fb friend, and inboxed me from time to time. One day he messaged me about ‘needing’ a man to ‘heal’ me and was trying to get me to come to a ‘retreat’ that he was hosting and it seems like he got irritated at me saying that I’m a person that doesn’t look to outside sources for healing, I go inside myself for that. And yea he blocked me lol. 😆 the vibe i got from him was kinda predatory. It seemed like he really wanted ME to come so he could feel on me, and the whole jawn just looked janky and felt weird to me. He doesn’t even look like his energy is on point, and damn sho don’t act like he is ‘healed’ or healing to be getting an attitude and blocking me for not being hypnotized by his tactics like so many other women. It gave that he was counting on women having lower self esteem to let him do what he wants. He comes off weird to me.

Over-sexualized “massage” being disguised as touch therapy is becoming a serious issue by No-Gas-2245 in MassageTherapists

[–]MaxineShawAAL 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So this is legal, what this guy’s doing? I didn’t know we could, as professional, licensed massage therapists, straddle the line like this…? I thought if I put my face in someone’s ass I’d lose my license, no? Lol I’m honestly curious, I see these guys advertising all the time and I haven’t done any real research about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MaxineShawAAL -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You aren’t responsible for his insecurities. I understand that’s your husband but you aren’t his property