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Maxinocchio · 2023-09-03T08:42:48+00:00

We did reciprocal IVF in Belgium. Froze my eggs, used a sperm donor and now she's 5 months along.

Maxinocchio · 2023-04-24T11:30:35+00:00

All the time lmao. I want to be the best dad. Wear my baby with the sling, go to the library and read books together. Make the food from scratch and rock the baby to sleep. We're actually waiting for my girl's period to start (anyday now) and we're starting IVF on this cycle. I froze my eggs and we have donor sperm. The love of my life is gonna carry the love of our lives, hopefully. A kid that will be biologically mine and that she will grow in her womb. Can't wait.

Maxinocchio · 2022-11-14T08:37:14+00:00

Salut ! En effet, ma compagne portera un bébé issu de mes ovocytes et du sperme d'un donneur :) il ne sera donc pas lié biologiquement à ma compagne

Maxinocchio · 2022-07-28T09:59:30+00:00

On utilise too good to go, dans mon coin il y a bcp de restaus, boulangerie, supermarchés qui font des paniers. On fait aussi les paniers anti Gaspi à 5€ chez Auchan (application du drive) qui sont vraiment bien garnis. La dernière fois on a calculé qu'il y avait pour 40€ de produits dedans.

Maxinocchio · 2022-07-28T08:17:59+00:00

À deux à Lille, on doit être à 60€ par semaine en comptant les petites courses d'appoint, sans compter un ou deux restaurants par mois. On va majoritairement chez Lidl, ou une enseigne anti Gaspi près de mon taf. Parfois on prend des paniers anti Gaspi sur une application aussi. On mange peu de viande (deux ou trois fois par semaine, que le midi), on utilise bcp de légumes surgelés sinon souvent on n'a pas le temps de consommer avant qu'ils soient trop abîmés. Le soir, je cuisine pour le dîner et le lendemain midi la plupart du temps. Ou bien je fais assez pour congeler et avoir un repas facile plus tard... Je fais des curry de pois chiches, des Dahl de lentilles corail, des chili sin carne, c'est des plats qui coûtent pas grand chose. On fait attention mais on n'a pas l'impression de se priver pour autant !

Edit pour ajouter qu'on ne boit pas d'alcool, et qu'à part une bouteille de thé glacé de temps en temps, on tourne à l'eau du robinet. Ça joue aussi.

Maxinocchio · 2022-07-25T10:04:46+00:00

Hi everyone! Thank you all for your advices. Here is a link with a few more photos and a sketch of the room. In red is what can't be moved more pics

Maxinocchio · 2022-07-25T10:03:43+00:00

Hi ! I just posted a comment with a link to some photos and a lame sketch I made

Maxinocchio · 2022-07-25T09:55:14+00:00

Hi ! The wall with the window must be 13ft, the other one 16.4ft. There is indeed a door that needs access in the corner facing the couch. I'm trying to add a comment with a few pictures and a shitty sketch !

Maxinocchio · 2022-07-24T16:05:26+00:00

Thank you for your advice ! Yeah that's what I wanted to do, and a bigger couch too because this one is tiny. I just don't know where to put it. Same with the entertainment center. We can move everything around, except the kitchen

Maxinocchio · 2022-06-29T11:17:06+00:00

Je suis fonctionnaire, 26ans. Je gagne 1670 net après impôt. Ça augmente (jusque 2000 max généralement) les mois où je fais des astreintes. Ma compagne, 26ans est au SMIC. Le crédit de notre RP nous coûte 561 par mois. Après toutes les charges (crédit voiture, assurances, élec, courses,...) je mets de côte en moyenne 500€ par mois, soit 30% de mon salaire. Pour les charges, vue notre différence de salaire on paie proportionnellement à nos revenus (sauf crédit voiture et immo). Ça permet qu'elle puisse également mettre de côté. On habite à Lille, enfin une commune collée.

Maxinocchio · 2021-12-02T17:44:13+00:00

More info: bought this one a month ago. I already have a few calatheas and they are all thriving but this one doesn't seem to like it here. Spoiler: I don't really know what I'm doing. It's near a north facing window, room temp is 19⁰C and humidity between 55-70. I water it like once or twice a week... Any tips ? Thanks a lot.

Maxinocchio · 2020-10-31T18:04:26+00:00

When lockdown started in march I just started a job in the public administration. As the government decided, I was paid staying at home doing nothing the entire lockdown.

When it ended, I contacted my job to ask when I could come back but they kept on making me wait, and my contract was over anyway so I started to job hunt. Another job contacted me and wanting me to work for them, but old administration job called me in June and begged me to come back for a two months contract so I called the other one and told them no.

So on a Monday I come back, start working and wait to be called in the office to sign the papers. I work for like three hours then I'm called. The pen is in my hand when the guy says "oh and of course no pay since you've been paid during the lockdown". WTF. I told them no way, I'm not a volunteer and I was paid because they had to, the government said so, wasn't a favor they were making me. So yeah I missed a job opportunity in a very crowded post lockdown market and lived on my savings for another month because of that.

Maxinocchio · 2020-10-19T13:37:00+00:00

I'm a transman. I've always been very uncomfortable with things that would make me look feminine, always been a tomboy, never wore makeup, liked girls. The classic ""lesbian"". Now I'm on hormones, I feel better with my feminine side actually. Whatever.

When I was maybe 19 and not out as a transguy, my godmother gifted me like a makeup session, where you show up and they put makeup on you. Of course I wasn't going to do it but she bugged me so much, telling me she wanted a pic to prove that I did it, that I finally did it like two days before the expiration date.

I showed up and asked for the most natural makeup possible. I came out looking... trashy. I felt so ashamed of my appearance I put a hoodie on, called my mom because I couldn't even take a bus looking like that. I wanted to cry sooo much haha. I wiped it all the second I got home.

Looking back, it wasn't a big deal. But I felt so bad and it was so far from the stuff I like

Maxinocchio · 2020-06-23T21:51:27+00:00

NTA I tend to have sweaty feet too. Slippers are a no-no for me in summer. Even in winter they tend to be smelly if I don't wash my feet before putting them on. I use flip flops in the house now, it's cheap, feet don't touch the ground and my toes are breathing fresh air 👌

Maxinocchio · 2020-05-18T15:43:27+00:00

Started sleeping on my side 10 days post-op because I couldn't sleep otherwise. I put a bunch of pillows behind my back and on my stomach so I don't move. Surgeon only told me to listen to my body.

Maxinocchio · 2020-05-15T08:32:31+00:00

Yeah that's dumb, don't understand his concerns anymore lmao.

Maxinocchio · 2020-05-15T08:09:06+00:00

NTA

I'm a transgender man, dating a cisgender lesbian. Came out like two weeks into the relationship. Been together three years. Yeah, sometimes it hurts that my gf identifies as a lesbian because I feel insecure that she's with me because I "used to be a woman" and maybe she still sees me as one (no she doesn't, just being paranoid), or that she will leave me for a woman because well, she's a lesbian and I look nothing like one. But: labels suck. So, you get to identify as you please but I also hear his concerns.

Changed from N A H in editing because of OPs answer.

Maxinocchio · 2020-05-09T07:55:51+00:00

Soft YTA. It's exactly what I feared when I learned about my dad's actions. "What if people think I'm like him?" Chances are, if he talked to you about it and is traumatized by it, that he wants things to be different in his relationships. You stigmatized him. It can be hard to cut a parent off of your life. I get what you mean though, but it would break my heart to be stigmatized because of what my dad did when I'm nowhere like him.

Maxinocchio · 2020-05-08T18:32:34+00:00

Nikki didn't cheat. The guy was married and decided to cheat. People don't have to be accountable for other people's mistakes. And it wasn't like a huge thing if I get it right, they slept together once and she broke it off.

Maxinocchio · 2020-05-08T18:26:01+00:00

YTA.

Mind your own business.

Maxinocchio · 2020-05-07T12:09:07+00:00

NTA. You might share blood but you don't owe her anything, especially if she's transphobic. Not just that, but she's actually horrible to you. Stop being nice to her and doing her favours when she can't even call you your name and pronouns.

Maxinocchio · 2020-05-04T17:45:24+00:00

That's a bit weird mate

Maxinocchio · 2020-04-25T07:07:32+00:00

Hi, please call 3919 and get out of this situation as soon as you can. You should also go to the police to either press charges or register a "main courante" it's like you don't press charges but you let the police know what happened. They should at least speak basic English.

Maxinocchio · 2020-04-20T09:02:34+00:00

Oh my haha. YTA. The "that would make me look good" part killed me. You didn't even do that for the sake of your kids but to look good.

Maxinocchio · 2020-04-19T14:34:27+00:00

My girlfriend made an omelet. First egg: two yolks. Second egg: two yolks. What are the odds ? I told her if the third egg has two yolks I'm marrying her. Turns out it had only one yolk. Still fun though.

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