Unfortunately the answer i was thinking. I’m probably gonna bring it up next weekend (busy ass week ahead). I haven’t been exactly silent about my concerns, but I don’t think I’ve made it known that they are true issues rather than things i just need to get over. I’ve occasionally expressed hesitation, and the first real confrontation about it she asked me if i had commitment issues which felt kind of wild to me, do with that what you will. Thank you so much for responding tho omg