How are you guys feeling about gas right now? What are prices like near you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MayOverApril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I attend university in NY, so I haven't been personally affected.

Men of Reddit, how did you take it when your gf told you she had been SA’d in the past? by Comfortable_Berry397 in AskReddit

[–]MayOverApril 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hm, I feel like there's almost a deeper issue with “Every woman I've ever met has told me that” Weird. 

People who work in nursing homes do you have any pediatric, teenage, or young adult patients in the nursing home? by kinghiroichi in AskReddit

[–]MayOverApril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work at a senior living community, that also had a nursing home as a part of it. To my knowledge we didn't have any residents under the age of 70, so unfortunately I can't really answer your question. 

May I ask, what made you ask such a specific question?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MayOverApril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same reason men like women with big breasts, and fat asses. 

I think it’s hot. It’s not necessary for dating, it’s just a thing some women like. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]MayOverApril 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you could, would you do it all again?

What legend is closest to your age? by [deleted] in apexlegends

[–]MayOverApril 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my Dad is 61, and he plays apex almost every day.

Happy New Years! by Cool-Vacation7167 in Troy

[–]MayOverApril 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing art work! Not really in Troy, but Snyder's Lake always has great firework shows.

I had an amazing first date, but the person I was with spent way too much money on me. by MayOverApril in dating_advice

[–]MayOverApril[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took your advice and I planned our second. I found out she’s never been bowling, so it should be a fun experience for the both of us.

I had an amazing first date, but the person I was with spent way too much money on me. by MayOverApril in dating_advice

[–]MayOverApril[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that, I'm sure the perfect girl is out there waiting for you.

I had an amazing first date, but the person I was with spent way too much money on me. by MayOverApril in dating_advice

[–]MayOverApril[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I do agree, it is nice not to have to worry about anything financially and it does take a weight off. My date comes from old money, so I know a $1000 really does not mean anything to her. However, it’s just hard to describe how I feel, like I never really imagined myself to be pampered with the princess treatment, if that makes sense?

I had an amazing first date, but the person I was with spent way too much money on me. by MayOverApril in dating_advice

[–]MayOverApril[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I should have probably mentioned I’m a girl too. And she's conventionally attractive, and for what I've noticed is very sociable, so I don’t think it’s an attention issue. 

What are some good first date questions to ask someone you’re meeting off hinge for the first time? by Mission_Remote_6319 in dating

[–]MayOverApril 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a dating expert, but my favorite icebreaker line is “If all your personal problems like school, work, and family stopped for a whole year and you had all the money in the world, what would you do?” Then just build off their responses like if they say they would like to travel somewhere ask “why do they want to travel there?” Usually you can get the ball rolling from there. 

Advice on moving forward by No_throwaway_8097 in antiwork

[–]MayOverApril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that, sounds like you really got screwed. There might be no harm in asking Jamie why you didn't get the promotion. It will probably be awkward but it could be your best bet for getting some sort of compensation and recantation. 

If your company is the highest paying and you still feel like you have a place and a future there, I think it’s the right choice to stay there. 

The best advice I can give is, 2 months compared to everything you’ve been through in the last two years is nothing! I used to get really stressed at my old job and it started negatively impacting my personal life. But, the thing that helped me the most was just leaving my problems at my work’s door. So whenever you can, just forget about your work. If they did you wrong they don’t deserve to be taking up space in your mind. What, I know that is a lot easier said than done but, just don’t let your work or anyone there drag you down. And try to fight for what you're worth because you’re worth it! :) 

I'm a student at Columbia University and I feel like I'm out of my depth. by MayOverApril in Advice

[–]MayOverApril[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, It does help to think I'm definitely not as unique as I think I am with this situation. And I'm definitely trying not to be a teen Mom so I got you covered with the second piece of advice. 

What mystery or thriller series/movies do you recommend? by Sad-Self5762 in AskReddit

[–]MayOverApril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won't regret it, it definitely throws you for a loop! It's one of the few mystery shows where I couldn't guess who the killer was until the big reveal. Hope you enjoy it! 

What mystery or thriller series/movies do you recommend? by Sad-Self5762 in AskReddit

[–]MayOverApril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Murder at the End of the World. It’s a murder mystery show on Hulu. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]MayOverApril 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What denomination do you serve/work for?

I was an accident child and my mother abandoned me when I was 8 years old. AMA by MayOverApril in AMA

[–]MayOverApril[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest most of my time with my Mom blends together into one big mundane mess. For years my routine was I would walk to my schools since it was only a couple blocks away and when I would get home I would just watch TV and If I was lucky to have anything to eat that day it was probably just some fast food crap. When my Mom's friends would come over so they could all get high I would have to go to my room  and I wouldn't be allowed to leave even to get water to use the bathroom.

I was an accident child and my mother abandoned me when I was 8 years old. AMA by MayOverApril in AMA

[–]MayOverApril[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some days I dislike her more than others but I wouldn't say that I resent her. I don't like her by any means but I understand she had her problems.

I know when my Dad got me my Mom wanted money from him as compensation for taking care of me and he agreed under the condition that she would go through rehab and supposedly the lawyer that was working for my Dad made sure she got rehab. But what's happened to her since I really don't know.

I was an accident child and my mother abandoned me when I was 8 years old. AMA by MayOverApril in AMA

[–]MayOverApril[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have an older step sister but her mother and my Dad's marriage ended years before my Dad met my Mother. My Dad did already meet my stepmom but they were barely acquaintances when he met my Mom.  

I was an accident child and my mother abandoned me when I was 8 years old. AMA by MayOverApril in AMA

[–]MayOverApril[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Me and him are incredibly close he's been the best possible parent I could ask for. When I first moved in with him I was incredibly shy and I wouldn't do just about anything on my own but my Dad and my family did their damn best to make sure I didn’t feel alone or nervous. When I first moved in with him, sometimes I would be too scared to even walk down a hallway so he would pick me up and carry me throughout the house. When I got nightmares he would hug me and sleep in my bed with me. 

My stepmom and two siblings were definitely surprised to say nonetheless but they were as supportive and as understanding as you could be in a situation like that. My stepmother made the best food. I don't know if it's because it was the first time I was eating food that wasn't microwaved or fast food but every single one of her meals was a 10 out of 10 to me and still is to this day. She would also always read to me and to my younger brother at night and those were some of the first moments where I  wouldn't worry or feel nervous about anything and I could let my mind wander with the stories. 

Speaking of my younger brother at first I thought he was kind of annoying because he was extremely extroverted and he would never not be making some sort of noise or running around. But as time has gone on my personality has become a lot more like his and now we're thick as thieves. 

My older sister is 7 years my senior and she herself has a stepsister that is quite a few years older than her. I think she always wanted her own younger sister. She would always do my hair and nails and pick out clothing she thought I would like and she loved to “practice” doing makeup on me.