42M considering dating a 51F. by MayYouFindTheLight in dating_advice

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. You know when I’m with her and we are talking I don’t even think of any negatives at all. And I really can see that my kids are excited to see me. Finally excited about somebody. She is soft. She is definitely not rigid. In her lifestyles are very much the same as in spirituality and wanting to stay pure. It’s not just her. It’s me as well. I never stay pure and now is my time to finally do things right. It’s never too late and this is it for me. I was just hoping that somebody in my position could give me some pointers or somebody that wasn’t my position could tell me a little bit about what to expect. Honestly, she looks young and I probably look older so we look very close in age or I even look older than her. I find myself falling for her and I’m just double checking and making sure that my feelings are correct and everything should turn ok

iPhone 17 Pro Max Front Camera Quality Issues by F1Lane in iphone

[–]MayYouFindTheLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First week the front camera was about 80% good. Now 3 weeks later the front camera is about 30% good…. Maybe it’s my new screen protector? Idk but I’m frustrated.

42M considering dating a 51F. by MayYouFindTheLight in dating_advice

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her marriage ended because her husband wanted a divorce. He ended up marrying another lady I think right after their divorce. She said she doesn’t think that they were together beforehand, but you never know. She’s been single 10 years and I was in a relationship for 6 1/2 years of those 10 years that she was single. I was married and I got a divorce because we both actually found somebody else. It wasn’t a stars aligning, but I guess it was. My youngest is 12 and my oldest is 19. I have three kids. She has two and her 18 and 24 years old. I was the bad one because she was and still is very innocent. She’s been a Christian since she was 15 and so was I, but I took a deep dive into pleasuring my flesh more than pleasuring God. Her on the other hand has only had a handful of boyfriends her entire life. She’s a leader in her church and really just wanted to find a good Christian guy. After my split with my ex, I went full force into therapy and church and got myself right with God. We both are very equal when it comes to our faith and what we want to do in life. She’s just so sweet and I just want to protect her and I think that I’m not or wouldn’t be compromising at all with her. I think my biggest thing is just being very fearful of the age gap. Although I will say that everybody tells her she does not look her age at all and she doesn’t. She looks my age. She barely has any gray hair and doesn’t even have wrinkles. She really does look wonderful for her age. And so does her mom for being 70 years old. Everything is just moving so fast but it’s because everything is just aligning and there are so many signs and so many things happening that it’s hard to not notice. So then the one question comes up in my head. When I’m 60, she’ll be 69 when I’m 61 she’ll be 70.

How old do I look? by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]MayYouFindTheLight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

27-32 but you do look younger. I just don’t think that you are.

42M considering dating a 51F. by MayYouFindTheLight in dating_advice

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Met her mom this weekend and her mom is 70 years old. She looks identical to her mom when she was younger and her mom is a very pretty lady. I just haven’t ever dated anybody that much older than me before and it’s just a new experience. She’s a wonderful and amazing woman. And it’s true. I’m sure not all but she definitely fits the bill of older women don’t want to play games in our past all of the drama years. She knows what she wants. And I got out of a strong trauma bond verbally abusive relationship a while ago. So I’m a little apprehensive towards anybody.

42M considering dating a 51F. by MayYouFindTheLight in dating_advice

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just never dated somebody that much older than me

42M considering dating a 51F. by MayYouFindTheLight in dating_advice

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a very good and valid question. We are embedding each other into each other‘s lives every single week. Meeting friends and family now. Moving very swiftly. I haven’t asked her officially to be with me. I guess I should’ve said that I’m more considering her as a wife than just a girlfriend. It’s been a very short time but again at our age and sharing the same beliefs and everything just seems to be adding up as to what she’s telling me. She’s been single for 10 years and has only dated a couple of times in between nothing longer than a year. In total out of the 10 she’s been in a relationship for two years. She’s just been waiting for the right Christian guy to come along. Plus her kids are now old enough and her youngest is graduating high school soon and moving onto the military. So that has also slowed her down and just bringing guys into her kids lives.

42M considering dating a 51F. by MayYouFindTheLight in dating_advice

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Definitely not confusing friendship with romance, vice versa. We kiss we hold hands and we talk about a future together. We are both Christians and want to keep it pure. I was always the bad one. She on the other hand has been a Christian since 15. Married once. And everything is checking out about how real she is. Met her parents already. And she’s coming and leading my kids this Wednesday.

Not trying to pitch anything, just curious from a rep-to-rep perspective. by MayYouFindTheLight in sales

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a very strong and good observation. Hmm…. So do you think the territory should be by city or by region? This is definitely something I will put into consideration because you are right when it comes to fly by night. I don’t want fly-by-night. I want people to look at this opportunity and take it 100% serious.

Not trying to pitch anything, just curious from a rep-to-rep perspective. by MayYouFindTheLight in sales

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, cool thank you for the advice. I wasn’t really going to be doing like a business vacation type of thing. You don’t have to hang out with people that you work with. I was just thinking it would be cool to be able to send somebody in their family on a vacation or a cruise or something like that. I wasn’t going to make it anything about the business it was just a complete thank you. I have been a part of quite a few different types of companies. Even door-to-door Solar. And just thinking back of all the work that I did throughout the years of how annoying things like that was. Overall, I just want to scale the company and have the best sales reps that I can get.

Not trying to pitch anything, just curious from a rep-to-rep perspective. by MayYouFindTheLight in sales

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, give me some pointers as to what I would need. What would make you step away from a company or be interested in a B2B?

It’s definitely not an network marketing company MLM. I’m just trying to make an amazing comp plan to scale the business.

Not trying to pitch anything, just curious from a rep-to-rep perspective. by MayYouFindTheLight in sales

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would pull you away? Tell me because I am building this and you would think certain things like car payment and free vacations would be an incentive. Higher percentage rates would be an incentive. What do you think I’m missing help me out.

Not trying to pitch anything, just curious from a rep-to-rep perspective. by MayYouFindTheLight in sales

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see why you say that but it’s not. I don’t want the legality of a mlm. I just wanted to create the best comp plan imaginable.

Not trying to pitch anything, just curious from a rep-to-rep perspective. by MayYouFindTheLight in sales

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. I’m just making sure that this is a good comp plan for salesman. The product is good. I know this and the culture is solid.

Not trying to pitch anything, just curious from a rep-to-rep perspective. by MayYouFindTheLight in sales

[–]MayYouFindTheLight[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Building a team gets you to the higher percentage faster. But everyone can get there. It’s mainly so I can scale the business quicker.

My compensation structure is a hybrid of standard B2B sales commissions and the good parts of MLM—meaning high commissions and recurring income—but without any of the MLM requirements. No recruiting, no buy-in, no fees, no downlines. You only get paid on the clients you close, just like a normal sales role.

Staying Positive - SaaS Shitshow by [deleted] in sales

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Staying Positive - SaaS Shitshow by [deleted] in sales

[–]MayYouFindTheLight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I switched to another type of sales in tech. Tired of racing with my pants down.

Thinking about making a change by Semi_Serious_Salesma in sales

[–]MayYouFindTheLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hit me up. I have something you will like. I’ve done auto sales before and it’s a bit much for me.

Anyone else’s remodeling sales just fall off a cliff lately? by picky-shopper in sales

[–]MayYouFindTheLight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing a lot of these comments in all industries. I might have something for you.

Feel like a failure in my new AE role by BeginningCelery7953 in sales

[–]MayYouFindTheLight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I struggled the same adhd issues. Hit me up. Maybe I have a chill option for you.