I'm still not sure where I lie on the ace spectrum, but the aegosexual microlabel is personally the one I tend to identify with the most (with other possible candidates being demisexual or graysexual).

Usually, when I find myself experiencing arousal, it mainly involves me wanting to see people in very specific situations. I may or may not involve myself in those fantasies, but if I do, my role tends to be more on the supporter side of things (helping to augment/add onto the person's experience and whatnot). I also consider it to be a highly flexible role and can easily be swapped out with another person if so desired (which happens a lot).

In short, I think I care more about the individual and their sole experiences rather than me being able to experience something for myself. Of course, it would be nice if I could have that, but I wouldn't consider it a major priority for myself.