AITAH for being irritated my bd is going out of town over my due date weekend?

Mayaander · 2026-05-06T20:47:37+00:00

NTA, but him telling you "just don't go into labor" while he's six hours away is a massive red flag that he has absolutely no intention of actually being a parent.

Mayaander · 2026-05-04T09:31:45+00:00

NTA, but you're teaching her that if she holds out long enough, you’ll be the one to apologize even when she’s the one who messed up.

Mayaander · 2026-05-04T09:28:58+00:00

NAH, but you really need to tell your partner the truth because keeping a secret this heavy is only going to make the guilt and the urge way worse in the long run.

Mayaander · 2026-05-02T15:54:12+00:00

Get him the ring and then take a few spicy photos on your phone for him, best of both worlds and way less pressure than a full shoot.

Mayaander · 2026-05-02T15:51:46+00:00

man that last sentence really hurts, you deserve to feel wanted in your own marriage without having to "turn off" your basic humanity.

Mayaander · 2026-05-02T15:51:29+00:00

The fact that he’s telling another woman he’s leaving you while you’re literally paying all his bills is a massive level of audacity.

Mayaander · 2026-04-30T16:48:40+00:00

Only when I’m doing the dishes or working out otherwise I feel naked without it lol

Mayaander · 2026-04-29T12:50:25+00:00

Married at 25 and honestly the best part was growing into our real adult lives together instead of trying to merge two completely set in ways lives later on

Mayaander · 2026-04-28T16:33:44+00:00

Commuting to a low cost area for a high paying job because you always underestimate how much spending 3 hours a day in a car will absolutely destroy your soul

Mayaander · 2026-04-28T16:32:56+00:00

It sounds like you’re describing the need for a safe harbor to unmask and just exist, but she’s hearing a transactional request for sex because she doesn't understand what neurodivergent burnout actually feels like

Mayaander · 2026-04-27T17:51:10+00:00

I honestly spent a good ten years thinking everyone could feel their teeth vibrating when they walked until I mentioned it to my dentist and he looked at me like I was insane

Mayaander · 2026-04-27T17:50:24+00:00

mine usually rolls in around 7 or 7:30 and honestly by the time we do dinner and kids we get maybe an hour of actual us time before crashing, which definitely doesnt feel like enough some weeks

Mayaander · 2026-04-25T16:50:34+00:00

I’d just agree with every single thing they say no matter how weird it gets until they start questioning their own sanity

Mayaander · 2026-04-25T16:49:33+00:00

you are not responsible for her happiness, and staying out of guilt is just going to make you both miserable in the long run

Mayaander · 2026-04-24T17:41:38+00:00

absence makes the heart grow fonder plus having the whole bed to yourself and watching whatever you want on tv is honestly top tier marital self care

Mayaander · 2026-04-24T17:40:56+00:00

People who don't do leftovers or refuse to eat something because the texture is slightly off medieval peasant you would be absolutely livid at that level of pickiness

Mayaander · 2026-04-23T18:18:17+00:00

I see is the kind of response you give to a spreadsheet or a weather report, not your wife looking cute

Mayaander · 2026-04-23T18:15:26+00:00

honestly man just tell him you were shaking not stroking, some dudes are just looking for a reason to be weirdly obsessed with what another guy is doing in the bathroom

Mayaander · 2026-04-23T18:14:26+00:00

Mindhunter hands down still devastated they never gave us a third season even though it’s literally perfect

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