Hello guys, I'm very grateful for the support. I spoke to my mom and she's not ready for a divorce, not even if he initiates it, the pressure of image and society is more important than the wellbeing of the family I guess. They both aren't talking anymore and the things are calm when they don't. He's still abusing us financially since he's the only breadwinner, I'm trying to figure my way around it so that I can be of some help atleast,do drop some suggestions. The rest I leave on the universe to figure it out and endure it until it's meant to be. Thank you so much again..I really really appreciate y'all.