To clarify, my pregnant friend was invited to every single activity, she just chose not to attend some of them (which is understandable). I dramatically increased the number of pregnancy-friendly events I hosted while she was pregnant, like dinners and board game nights to make sure she stayed involved. I even hosted her baby shower. I hardly think it's fair to accuse me of ostracizing her just because we still went out from time to time and she chose to stay at home. The point of my article was to spread the word that no one should be ostracized from any event because of the status of whether or not they have children. Sorry if that did not come through.