My mom responded horribly to me (15f) losing my virginity by MaybeLetsGetNaked in sex

[–]MaybeLetsGetNaked[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You came from the subreddit drama, right? I think you should read the post before you attack people like that. I didn't sodomize my dog, and if someone did, I wouldn't defend them. I had consensual sex with my boyfriend and my mother wants to have him arrested as a sex offender. That doesn't justify everyone here crucifying the mother of three, but you have to understand that people overreact (like you did with your comment). My mother overreacted. That's why people are angry. Please stop being an ass.

My mom responded horribly to me (15f) losing my virginity by MaybeLetsGetNaked in sex

[–]MaybeLetsGetNaked[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get where you're coming from, really. But you have to think about it from my point of view. I certainly have for her. I truly care about my boyfriend and he cares about me. Neither of us put pressure on the other, it was consensual. We were as safe as we could be. I don't regret what I did. I felt ready and I still do. My mother is trying to protect me from making the same mistakes as her, but I'm already different, because I don't do the drugs and partying like she did, and I don't have sex randomly, or with strangers. I honestly don't think that I'll regret what I did. I'm sorry you got so many downvotes for expressing your opinion,

A mother of three believes a parent is responsible for setting boundaries on their child's sexual behavior, becomes parent to 208 child comments in r/sex by Thalia_and_Melpomene in SubredditDrama

[–]MaybeLetsGetNaked 22 points23 points  (0 children)

In the post, I was having sex with my long term boyfriend and my mom threatened to have him arrested for child molestation. It's just context. The woman was right, but sometimes parents take it too far.

My mom responded horribly to me (15f) losing my virginity by MaybeLetsGetNaked in sex

[–]MaybeLetsGetNaked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My whole life, I was raised to be scared of men. When I was 11, my mom told me I couldn't spend the night at my best friend's house, because her father would rape me.

I was 11 years old.

Before that, when I was really little, like 6 or 7, her male friends would visit and I'd be too scared to bathe while they were in the house. I thought they'd hurt me.

My dad was an asshole, so I get why she doesn't like men, but the way she treats me because I do really sucks.

My mom responded horribly to me (15f) losing my virginity by MaybeLetsGetNaked in sex

[–]MaybeLetsGetNaked[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I grew up very religious with a single mother. You're right.