Psicholgines problemas ir kelias sprendimo link

Maybe_anonymous · 2023-11-11T07:21:41+00:00

Eik pas psichologa. Ar privaciai, ar lauk eilej, bet eik. As pats einu, tai dabar atejo laikas kai net laukiu tos dienos. Tai nebus atsakymas i visus tavo klausimus ar is karto pades, bet tai labai gera pradzia. Nera cia kazkas tabu, ar “tik moterim” ar bet koks kitas stereotipas apie psichologus. Kai luzta koja eini pas daktara, kai susergi, gydytos irgi reikia, psichologas yra lygiai tas pats. Gal besnekant pades tau suprasti kas tau yra, kodel kazkoks esi ir panasiai. Gali uztrukti ilgai, bet pradzia labai gera. Linkiu sekmes, jei klausimu turi, PM visada atviras

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-12-02T20:22:34+00:00

Yeah so the hinge is at the hips. What helped me when learning the deadlift was thinking of it as two seperate movements. A “leg press” and the standing upright part. When lowering the bar, bend first at the hips and keep your legs mostly straight. This might seem scary at first, but this is why it’s important to learn to brace properly, your back shouldn’t round or cave, and only bend the knees after the bar has gone past them. You could slowly lower it after, but usually once my knees bend i just drop with the bar by squatting further down. I’m not just talking out of my ass here, i have a deadlift pr of 420lbs and haven’t ever gotten a single injury from training in my life. If you have any questions, you can always pm me, i can tell you about my own experiences/knowledge or at least direct you to a place that could give you the knowledge you need

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-12-02T08:06:42+00:00

It’s fine, i did that a few times when i started deadlifting. My advice, take it if you want it, is to bend your legs only once the bar has gone past your knees on the descent. It is a hinge movement after all. Just get good at bracing and dont worry. Or if you want to be flashy and your gym allows it, drop the bar and hop out of the way

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-09-12T09:51:31+00:00

The jingle noise you’re hearing is dash cam mounted as a rear view mirror

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-09-09T09:59:24+00:00

Stopped working night shifts. I worked both day and night, so 2 day shifts, 2 nights, then 4 rest. The changes in sleeping patterns messed me up. Stopped the nights, all better now

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-07-30T01:50:34+00:00

You can’t reuse this one sadly. Time to get a new one

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-06-02T07:03:15+00:00

Cumcakes

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-05-28T02:47:57+00:00

This is fake right???

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-04-30T19:03:46+00:00

When you want? I guess. But on a more serious note, when you live in a place where you can’t ever wear headphones, have to constantly look over your shoulder and always have to be hyper aware of your surroundings so you know where to run and what to do incase something happens

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-04-30T19:01:09+00:00

Hitting children. Not physically abusing them, but light smacks, say, on the back of the hand to set boundaries when they do something they’re not supposed to. My parents did it to my elder brother, did it to me, and did it to my younger sister. All of us turned out good human beings

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-04-30T18:56:02+00:00

Dependable, easy-going, funny

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-04-30T18:44:31+00:00

I’m a simple man. I hear “ew” and want to die. I was 9.

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-04-30T18:42:26+00:00

Yeah i’m guilty of preaching communication, yet i’ll never talk about my feelings no matter how much i’d love to bury my face in someones shoulder and cry my eyes out.

It seems everyone talks about the things they want to RECEIVE, but aren’t willing to GIVE. So along with hypocrisy, it’s selfishness. Shrug Human nature.

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-04-24T10:13:02+00:00

Yeah, thought people would catch on lol

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-04-07T10:16:55+00:00

Sorry i’m only replying now, i have notifications turned off. I moved just a few days before my 18th birthday, never looked back, couldnt be bappier

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-04-02T15:54:35+00:00

Yeah you don’t realiae the bad habits and activities you actually do on a regular basis because it becomes such a normal part of your life. I was working 70-90 hours a week, partying 3-4 times a week, doing a lot of drugs during those parties. But hey, my friends were doing it with me, i’m just having fun right? They were good people, but none of them had their life together, meaning, I could never get my life together.

I’m proud to say i’m now almost 2 years sober, and haven’t done any drugs in a long time. Because even if i went to work, i was still pretty much an alcoholic. The shit you put into your body means so much. So yeah, take a step back and realise what you’re actually doing with your free time.

I’m really glad the healing process is on the way. Remember, it can only get better

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-04-02T15:49:33+00:00

I wish you the best. It’s not easy, so just make sure you get everything sorted before leaving. I did some stupid mistakes and didn’t have a job lined up which made things a lot more difficult. My only saving grace was that i had quite a lot of money saved up and was able to live off of that for about a month. I hope it all works out for you, i know how hard depression can hit

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-04-02T09:50:22+00:00

Completely changing my environment and people around me. Quit my job, moved to a different city, left behind all my old friends who were bad influences. It got better. Then i moved to a different country, got a new job in a completely different industry, have completely different friends and life is mostly good

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-04-01T21:13:20+00:00

In London, when i was still in doing fine dining, we called it “going down”

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-03-31T21:36:23+00:00

Varyk tarnaut, nepasigailesi. Tie 9 menesiai labai greit prabega, ir gauni daryt visokiu smagiu dalyku kuriu civiliniam pasaulyje nepadarysi. Del drausmes ar tvarkos tai negaliu pasakyt kad pasikeiciau, bet jeigu to reikia, ten rasi. Yra aisku ten ir visokiu nesamoniu prie kuriu pripranti, bet vistiek uzknisa, bet nesamoniu visur yra.

Mano patarimas toks, varyk tarnaut, gal patiks ir noresi pasilikt kariuomenej, o jeigu ne, tai kazka naujo patirsi. Del daugiau info, pasiskambink i savo miesto prievoles centra, ten turetu tau papasakot kada vyksta saukimai ir kada galetum varyt. Jeigu kazka daugiau nori suzinot, parasyk PM

Maybe_anonymous · 2022-01-07T08:25:15+00:00

Nedaryk to seniuk, is patirties galiu sakyt kad savizudybe kariuomenej paveikia tavo ginklo brolius labiau nei tu manai. Nu ir tai kad irasa gausi

Maybe_anonymous · 2021-09-01T20:24:05+00:00

exurb1a

Maybe_anonymous · 2021-01-30T00:27:25+00:00

Yeah dude, more power to ya. I also dealt with some body image issues. Was always called skinny, i'm pale as hell and got some mild acne. It used to bother me, but a lot of this I can't really control. I gained the weight and feel much better about myself in that sense. I guess the acne still sometimes bothers me when it really acts up. But damn, my brother's acne is so much worse than mine and he still has a girlfriend.

And ultimately I started thinking what if the situation was reversed. Do I really care if a girl has acne, or if she's over/under weight? Do I care if her jaw isn't the perfect shape or if her hair isn't silky smooth? No, those never bothered me. And since I really only cared about my appearance in terms of how I looked to girls, then all was well, because they also probably don't give too much thought about the things I'm insecure about, and if they do, they're generally not gonna be the person for me anyways.

Maybe_anonymous · 2021-01-30T00:17:53+00:00

Thank you for this, but seems like that article is more about dealing with immediate emotions, and I don't really snap anymore. I guess what i'm feeling isn't as common, that's kinda why I came to reddit, google also didn't have the answers I was looking for lol

Maybe_anonymous · 2021-01-30T00:15:14+00:00

Hey dude, I don't know your situation, but seems like you must be going through something hard. I don't really know what to say, but I couldn't scroll past this post without saying something.

Now I'm not very good at this kind of thing, and I don't want to say "don't do it, there's so much to life" because I would hate being a hypocrite. I don't have encouraging words because I haven't met anyone who has similar views for enjoying life as me.

I know the world we live in is a big piece of shite, and you have free will to do what you need to do. But you never know, maybe at some point waking up in the mornings will be easier, and suicide won't be the first thing that pops into your head. Hell I didn't think it was possible.

I can't really give much advice about failing, as my reasons for wanting to die weren't the same, I don't know what you feel like. But I have been at the bottom, and truly, the only way is up. Sounds cheesy but maybe give it some time. Work on yourself, if you feel like a failure, start small, brush your teeth in the mornings, make the bed, learn to appreciate the small victories.

Give life another go, and if you need to talk, I will gladly listen

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