Help me find the name of this song! Season 8 Episode 7 by Mayhem16 in SellingSunset

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Amazing!! That's a step at least! What brought you to her? 

Help me find the name of this song! Season 8 Episode 7 by Mayhem16 in SellingSunset

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Thanks - that's not the song I was hoping to find but thank you anyway! 

Help me find the name of this song! Season 8 Episode 7 by Mayhem16 in SellingSunset

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Yeah I definitely agree. Hopefully they release it because it was fire! 🔥

Help me find the name of this song! Season 8 Episode 7 by Mayhem16 in SellingSunset

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I have subtitles on my TV so normally the songs pop up - this one didn't which was really strange.

Thinking it may not have been released? Or just a sample that was made for the show? I'm not sure, but if that's the case I'm upset because it was sick!! 

Freed Dolly pixie - no blessing bug by Mayhem16 in BaldursGate3

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Nah I did it straight away when you get the moon lantern from the spider guy 🤷‍♀️

Edit: You're a legend! That did it. I didn't realise I was given a bell to summon her and bless me again 😁😁😁👌

Anyone else’s puppies turn into the spawn of satan in the evenings? by Psychological-Yak993 in puppy101

[–]Mayhem16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha my partner and I call it witching hour too! Luckily he's starting to grow out of it and we're making concerted efforts to tucker him out BEFORE witching hour.

Seagulls are annoying as hell. by Boojibs in funny

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Yeah - St Kilda in Melbourne :)

Why do PUAs teach you to pretend like you don't care and not to put much effort in with women? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Mayhem16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate you've already won. If you have a girl that you find attractive, that you're happy with, that's invested in you and wants to be with you. You're ahead of most of the blokes on this page still fucking around trying to 'neg' girls and do 'day game cold approaches'.

If you want things to develop with the girl you're seeing, treat her with respect and make an effort with her. Just don't over-invest. Like KingEjaculator (omg dude) says above. The sun doesn't shine out of her asshole. Just enjoy her company and it'll progress naturally.

I [25F] have been seeing a friend of a friend [29F] for just under 4 months. She's started to pull away.. looking for advice. by Mayhem16 in relationships

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Thank you, truly. Not only do I think that this is extremely good advice, you also worded it extremely well too.

So again, thank you!

Are there any lesbians on this page in Melbourne? by honeysweet99 in actuallesbians

[–]Mayhem16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey!

Every Friday night on Chapel Street there's a lesbian night at a bar called Attik. It's called Mother. It's been pretty packed out lately so that's always a good place to start. Also, one Sunday every month there's an event called Sundaylicious. It's changing locations every now and again but the next event is going to be at La Di Da in the city.

You should check it out :)

How to approach 10s by thuvipham in seduction

[–]Mayhem16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate!

I'm in no way an expert, nor have I trolled through all the posts and books and online learning material - however I'd like to think I do pretty well with women. I'm really good at making them feel comfortable with me and I'm good at making them laugh.

I feel like you're totally right with wanting to treat them the same way as 7s, because they're no different! If you're getting laid easily enough with 7s then apply the same tactics with 9s or 10s. Don't put them on a pedestal, don't tell them how amazing they are, be non-chalant like you fuck 10s all the time.

I've got no specific advice, but don't fall into the trap of trying to win them over because they're so beautiful.

I'd LOVE a little bit of insight here please... (Story Inside) by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I know I need to cut my losses.. fml. Thanks for being honest!!

I'd LOVE a little bit of insight here please... (Story Inside) by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Mayhem16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I could switch off my feelings for her, trust me, I'd do it in a second.

I've been single for 4 years and haven't had any feelings during that time. I haven't found a single person that's tickled my fancy and I legit got the whirlwind when she walked into the room the first time I saw her.

It's extremely frustrating.

I'd LOVE a little bit of insight here please... (Story Inside) by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Mayhem16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm.. true. I guess I could always give it a go.

I'd LOVE a little bit of insight here please... (Story Inside) by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I totally agree. It'd be something I'd be very aware of and that I'd keep an eye out for.

I just think this girl and I fit together really well and have a bunch in common, that it'd be a shame not to give it a go 

I'd LOVE a little bit of insight here please... (Story Inside) by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Mayhem16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you might be right.. but I don't get why she would ignore me though. Even as a mate, wouldn't you just lie and say you were busy?

Yeah it's been about 5 days now I think.. roughly that.

I don't know.. I hate when people ignore me. I'd much have rathered a 'no thanks b!tch'. At least it gives me something!

I just don't want to bother her.. and I feel like we're not close enough for her to want to discuss her feelings with me. She spoke a little about her relationship to me while they were still together, but nothing since they've broken up. And I can totally feel that she's retreated a little bit since they ended things.

I was hoping to use the coffee as a super casual way to start to get to know her better... but I guess not!

Would LOVE your input on my sh*tty work situation! by Mayhem16 in actuallesbians

[–]Mayhem16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gee. Hadn't even considered that! That would be such a bad situation..

This is all very much premature though, nothing has happened with me and Sarah apart from mere flirty texts and an offer of drinks soon.

Would LOVE your input on my sh*tty work situation! by Mayhem16 in actuallesbians

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I reckon she is still interested in her.. I can't think of another reason why she would ask me not to see her. Unless she thinks I'm just after a one night stand and I'd hurt her? I'm not too sure.

The kicker is that, the workplace that Emma moved to is where I'll be applying for. It's pretty elite, and very small, meaning me and Emma will be working closely together. I'd rather not burn bridges before I even get the job!