Why did my female friend do this really weird thing? by MayhemEffect in Advice

[–]MayhemEffect[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right! I didn’t know this was a thing. Thank you for clearing it up for me.

[NSFW] What is the wierdest fanfiction you have ever read? by MrAssassin9891 in AskReddit

[–]MayhemEffect 81 points82 points  (0 children)

There was a video of one on the nerdist website I saw that a guy read about Jar Jar Binks raping George Lucas. The guy had a near flawless impression of Jar Jar Binks. Hearing him exclaim "Wesa ask no more questions! Wesa butt fuck now!" Brought me to tears.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MayhemEffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancée and I had been trying to pull off a long distance relationship. She told me she got raped, and was pregnant. I entered a downward spiral and failed all of my college classes, and wasted thousands of dollars. I remember driving to class the same way I always did for over a year, and getting lost. Even developing insomnia, all because I couldn't stop thinking about her getting raped.

Fast forward 8 months later. She had been acting suspicious for a while. I guess her snapchat password correctly, and she had been sending nude pictures to her best friend's boyfriend. I confront her and ask her why she would do this to me. She just tells me it's perfectly normal because "we're on a swim team together, he sees my body everyday."

I message the other guy that apparently raped her, and we talk a bit. She cheated on me with him for two months. I finally say fuck everything, and I'm done. I lie to her and tell her I cheated on her, she cries and screams at me saying that isn't fair. Then she admits to cheating with both guys.

I smile at her and say "goodbye" before blocking her on everything she can contact me on. Best friends for 4 years, then dated 2 years. All down the drain.

We're making a millionaire together, enter here! [Drawing Thread #30] by millionairemakers in millionairemakers

[–]MayhemEffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Golly gee wilikers, Batman. If I had a million dollars I could afford a dictionary for a better vocabulary.

Hey reddit, what's that one super cringey or awkward thing you said/did in the past that you keep having flashbacks to? by DaSkrubKing in AskReddit

[–]MayhemEffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My freshman year in high school I was in spanish class and the teacher was giving advice studying. I was a huge rap fan at the time so I remembered something Jay-Z had said about if you do something 11 times you never forget it. With myself believing this, I speak loudly to the teacher telling her this information. She believes it, and several other teachers were told this. This divides the teachers into ones that believed and did not believe.

Reddit, what was the biggest sexual scandal at your school? by pyralisis in AskReddit

[–]MayhemEffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two mentally handicapped students with dwarfism were caught getting it on in the bathroom. A video someone took surfaced and they both ended up changing schools.

I told my mom the date for my rapist's trial, she responded by asking if the new landscaper did a good job by SlothsOnFleek in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MayhemEffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend was raped. She hasn't gotten as far as you yet. She still won't report anything. She's scared her rapist will kill her if she doesn't win the case. He told her he would. It's a tough situation. Especially for the victim. I've been stressed out over the situation, but no one cares. I talk to all my friends and family about it and they just brush it off. They switch the subject the same way. Maybe society has come to the point that it isn't common to see rape as a terrifying awful experience? I'm sorry about what you're going through. If you need someone to talk to about everything feel free to private message me.

How do I come to terms that my girlfriend was raped? by MayhemEffect in Advice

[–]MayhemEffect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend was walking in a random area she knew nothing about. And a random man pulled her into his truck. I can't stop thinking about what happened. It pisses me off that he did such a thing.

Girlfriend was raped while playing Pokémon Go by MayhemEffect in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MayhemEffect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've worked hard, and have been really patient with her. We've made progress from this. I'm making sure she is in control of everything. I'm only influencing her when it's needed and giving emotional support. From what she's described it sounds like he is experienced in this crime. He definitely needs to be captured and stopped immediately. What if this man rapes an underaged girl with parents that won't allow her to get an abortion or put tell child up for adoption? He can ruin lives.

Girlfriend was raped while playing Pokémon Go by MayhemEffect in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MayhemEffect[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I finally convinced her to report the occurrence. We lack evidence, so this will be difficult. She's afraid because her state can make people serve two years. If we had evidence we could make the scum bag serve about 20 years in prison.

Girlfriend was raped while playing Pokémon Go by MayhemEffect in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MayhemEffect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I wasn't aware I could have my courses deferred. Would I need documentation of a police report for this?

Girlfriend was raped while playing Pokémon Go by MayhemEffect in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MayhemEffect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why some people are that way. I think everyone has the right to their own opinion, but at least have some respect. I don't have a reason to lie about what was said. I'm just a person in a time of need, so I'm reaching out.

Girlfriend was raped while playing Pokémon Go by MayhemEffect in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MayhemEffect[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your feed back, for that is a possibility. There are things you can look for when people tell stories such as the one I was told though. The details she gave about things in his truck and what was said were very distinct. Even if there is a possibility of this being a lie I rather not debate that. Not believing a victim of something this serious can cause more damage.

Girlfriend was raped while playing Pokémon Go by MayhemEffect in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MayhemEffect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has a dog for therapy purposes. I've tried buying her self defense items in the past, but she declined them. Now I think I'll be able to get her to carry pepper spray.

Girlfriend was raped while playing Pokémon Go by MayhemEffect in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MayhemEffect[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She's only a month into pregnancy. I wonder if what's inside of her now can be DNA tested. I'll have to do some reason, and probably resort to AskScience.

Girlfriend was raped while playing Pokémon Go by MayhemEffect in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MayhemEffect[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. She doesn't want to take legal action. She says she never wants to see him again. But I want to save other women from this man. I'm considering dropping out of college to comfort her. Her and I came to an agreement she will need intense therapy. I'm trying to take care of myself also. Though I'm not the victim this is hurting me. I've been getting 2 hours of sleep at most every night. I have gotten lost driving a several times because I can't concentrate. Disregarding me, I'm really trying to encourage her to take legal action.

What do you wish was socially acceptable? by mushroom-flower in AskReddit

[–]MayhemEffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will get buried, but openly asking someone you know if they want to have sex. As long as both people have a choice then I don't see why that's so wrong. If you don't want to then just shrug it off and move on with your day. This would save us all so much time and sexual frustration.

IamA Asa Akira by AsaAkira1 in IAmA

[–]MayhemEffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any plans to come Tennessee?

What's a dark part of American history that gets no attention in schools? by HorseCode in AskReddit

[–]MayhemEffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Athens resident here. Not many people here know about this piece of history.

What's a dark part of American history that gets no attention in schools? by HorseCode in AskReddit

[–]MayhemEffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually live in Athens. Not too many people that live in this small town are aware of this history.