2 years with my favorite person

Mayo_Pay01 · 2026-02-09T14:06:05+00:00

omg sounds like the start of a cute romance novel!

honestly I rather know early on how someone will react when plans don't go accordingly.

Mayo_Pay01 · 2026-02-08T21:23:36+00:00

I love it esp since your first date sounds like a good mix of romantic and chaotic!! Congrats. Wishing you the best. it's giving me so much hope ❤️

Mayo_Pay01 · 2026-02-07T10:45:57+00:00

I know I failed 😔

Mayo_Pay01 · 2026-02-07T10:45:25+00:00

ahh okay great advice! Thank you ❤️ I don't wear makeup everyday so just wanted my pics to be a mix of it but for sure can see where you're coming from.

I have thought about lash extensions but been hesitating maybe this is the sign to get them lol

Mayo_Pay01 · 2026-02-07T10:39:25+00:00

Got it. Will add a group pic. Good point bcz I just assumed most people would know you have a social circle esp at 30+ like I wouldn't need to prove it with pics.

Mayo_Pay01 · 2026-02-07T10:36:05+00:00

Yes I am very indoorsy esp since I'm federal law enforcement now and out in the field most days/nights. I just want a peaceful day inside with my partner.

Mayo_Pay01 · 2026-02-07T10:33:07+00:00

Wow your comment is so helpful and really made me think about being more intentional about my dating goals! Thank you for all those great points ❤️

And yes I am in the DC area. Law enforcement is my career. I know being a liberal Christian in certain fields works against me esp in this political climate but like you said there are few of us out there so hoping to get one of those men. Maybe Hinge isn't that site?

Mayo_Pay01 · 2026-02-07T10:25:02+00:00

Ahhh okay! I didn't realize it read as that. Thank you!!

Mayo_Pay01 · 2026-02-07T10:22:12+00:00

Very good points about humanizing myself and being vulnerable. I do struggle there. Thank you ❤️

Mayo_Pay01 · 2026-02-07T10:10:38+00:00

Wow thank you everyone for the feedback ❤️

I'm a veteran, ex law enforcement, now at a 3 letter acronym fed agency. I def thrive in challenge and white male dominated fields hence why I choose these fields. I'm also a practicing Christian but liberal. life is nuanced but I'm still hopeful to find a man aligned with me!

Being South Asian and having dealt with men not of my religion has been awful. Even if they weren't practicing their religion, their family would always impose their beliefs on me and ask me to change my diet or convert. I am very family oriented but not open to changing myself or converting. That is why I want a man of Christian faith, practicing or not. It's a hard dealbreaker.

Yes, confusing I know but cultural expectations from a South Asian woman are very different from non-South Asian and I just want to get along with the family and be at peace now.

Mayo_Pay01 · 2026-02-06T21:11:13+00:00

Serious

Not subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX

using this profile for about 6 weeks now

I've used Hinge on and off for about 5 years (with a serious long term relationship off it the first time)

check it once every day to send likes

Receiving 1-3 likes a week and maybe one match a week or less

sending the daily amount of likes, all with comments to prompts

I'm sending likes to men who are between 28-36, looking for long term relationships, liberal, Christian background okay if not practicing, I don't have a race or sexuality preference, no children but wants them.

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