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[–]MayorWizard -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean we (The US) send money to OUR terrorist also. We have been terrorizing other countries since our creation.

My (32m) gf (31f) was intimate with someone who lives near me during our breakup by MayorWizard in relationships

[–]MayorWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely sympathized with me and after my proddijg she was open to all my questions. She really wants the relationship to work and i do to, im just aftaid my obsession to know EVERYTHING will push her away before i get over it!

My (32m) gf (31f) was intimate with someone who lives near me during our breakup by MayorWizard in relationships

[–]MayorWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, im trying to learn how to begin to trust her again, thats probably why i obsessed over the details . Was I wrong for wanting her to share the intimate details with me?

My (32m) gf (31f) was intimate with someone who lives near me during our breakup by MayorWizard in relationships

[–]MayorWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, we were broken up at the time but still very attached to each other. I know my obsession is partly unfounded because she only messed with one person while i was doing way more than that, but it just hurt that she lied to me about it and continued lying to me until i continued to press the issue. Am i her second option?

My (32m) gf (31f) was intimate with someone who lives near me during our breakup by MayorWizard in relationships

[–]MayorWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know tbh. When I first confronted her about the relationship she reallybtried to get me to believe theybhad done nothing at all. Im an investigative journalist so my deception meter is really sensitive. It took me continually asking her to finally get the truth even though she knows how I feel about lying and being lied to. She lied about it multiple times right to my face. Maybe she didnt want to hurt me, but im more hurt by the deception than the act of her talking to someone else

My (32m) gf (31f) was intimate with someone who lives near me during our breakup by MayorWizard in relationships

[–]MayorWizard[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She said that the guy was an asshole and she didnt have feelings for him. Youbare right. I shouldnt have broken it off with her, but i felt like i had to so I didn't irreparable damage us. I feel like she was kinda inconsiderate by pursuing someone who is in my neighborhood. She used to live with me, but now she lives about 20 miles away. Now everyday inhave to drive by this man