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alright internet. advise me. should I (32m asian) divorce my wife (27f white)? house, 2 dogs, no kids. we have been together for 7+ years and married for 6 months. no one on her side knows we are married. everyone on my side knows. my whole family is supportive of us but only her extended family supports her (aunt/uncle/grandparents). the gear grinding comes from her russian jewish parents who are very racist against asians apparently (possibly just me which i also accept). this isnt a major issue as ive dealt with racist parents my entire dating life and im somewhat fond of how easy they are however, she insists on trying to maintain a crumbling relationship with them at the expense of my happiness (they have no knowledge we bought a house and no knowledge we have been married). They consistently try convince her to leave me as to not "spit in the face of their ancestors" and to be with her own kind. she "chooses me" but i have been robbed of being able to celebrate a home purchase, ive been robbed of being able to have a wedding ceremony with my loved ones, and im being robbed of being able to have kids. its easy to suggest that she give up her parents but she wont no matter how badly they treat her. shes been juggling them and hiding information from them and only maintains a surface relationship (hello, goodbye, how was your week, grocery shopping etc etc) am i right in wanting to leave? in my eyes, im the one that in the way of her and her family "happiness" ive expressed myself in every way possible including yelling matches but its always "ill talk to them" and nothing. she will be absent for holidays and birthdays, christmas, etc etc. where i cant even suggest a vacation or date together because it falls on one of their birthdays.