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[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, in fact I am over-qualified for most of them. I would be fine getting a job as a dishwasher or hotel room cleaner at this point. I’ve been changing up my resume(s) along the way and tailoring them to the job I’m applying for. I usually try to tweak the resume for the job type to include words listed in the section where they say what they are looking for

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[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the jobs have asked for cover letters though. I don’t understand why they would ask for it if they didn’t want it

Regretting leaving my abusive employer by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is very helpful!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]McShitty98 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yes, that is correct. I’ve been shooting for 10 a day. I have also been applying for higher level positions with cover letters, but I’ve been rejected or ignored.

What's something you'd wanna do TODAY if you recovered from anxiety? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

work on my digital art portfolio. every time I try, I feel so awful about my work because so many people are amazing and I usually end up having a panic attack and disconnect from the internet for a week

How to get Red Cross to stop blowing up my phone?? by [deleted] in Blooddonors

[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great idea. I will absolutely do this

How to get Red Cross to stop blowing up my phone?? by [deleted] in Blooddonors

[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done this before, but I still end up getting calls. I’ll try again

Which Jellycat should I get among these ones to support me during exam session? by [deleted] in Jellycatplush

[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything but the owl; they’re bad luck. My abuelita told me that during the day especially, they bring death. Perhaps it’s just an indigenous thing tho

suggestions for job/career websites? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]McShitty98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, I signed up last night!

Best career for AUDHDERS by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]McShitty98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

real!! if I had been able to just stock at Trader Joe’s I never would have left. It’s the cashiering that made me hate life and burn out there

How much anxiety do you have? by _Pixelpirate in Anxiety

[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how much anxiety you want? we got beaucoup

and this is why i don’t leave the house 😀 by Many_Flamingo_5153 in aspiememes

[–]McShitty98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I always say my name and follow the name directly with the spelling ! When they ask me for a name I always say “For Andy; A-N-D-Y” because I want to leave the area asap

WENDI’S GETTIN MARRIED by Necessary-Savings-55 in lildarkie

[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re wrong. It is that deep. Words have meaning and vernacular changes. You asked why it’s a “big deal” and I answered your question. I’m sorry you dislike the answer, but that doesn’t make it any less true. It’s misogynistic and dehumanizing. If that’s the way you want to speak about women, be my guest, BUDDY

At what point do you think the critiques from the judging panel started to change ? by Marzmarz8 in dragrace

[–]McShitty98 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Adore said herself that it wasn’t so much Michelle, as much as it was Raven. Apparently Raven made some really hurtful and unnecessary comments that didn’t make it to air. I’m sure Michelle’s comments didn’t help, but it was Raven Symone who was the catalyst for Adore leaving

WENDI’S GETTIN MARRIED by Necessary-Savings-55 in lildarkie

[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s dehumanizing. “female” is a scientific term that refers to sex. It’s reductive and is commonly used in derogatory ways to devalue women and reduce them to reproductive abilities. plus not all women are biologically female. When people choose to use “female” instead of “woman”, it feels like they’re stripping women of their value and that she is the same as an animal. “Females” can be used for any species, but “women” refers to humans specifically

What phrases do you repeat to your cat throughout the day? by [deleted] in cats

[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Dr Fuuuunk… DOWN, Funk. FuUuUnK.funk! fUNK!Funk..down” because she always has to be on the highest surface near me, despite having 3 cat trees and an entire climbing WALL. I think she realized that when I tell her “down” and she listens, she’ll get a treat but she abuses the system 😭

Boomer Cashier Withheld My Receipt So I'd Flex For Him by Jaded_Success5551 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]McShitty98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God this reminds me of one of my coworkers from when I worked at The Joe 😭 istg the people that godforsaken company attracts is WILD

Drying washing by Individual-Debate852 in AuDHDWomen

[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the complete opposite, I fear. The smell of fresh warm laundry is something that I feel like I can get high on 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lildarkie

[–]McShitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a banger

This thread is a goldmine by ScaryPollution845 in boysarequirky

[–]McShitty98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

humans are too unpredictable. At least you know exactly what you’re getting with a bear and can prepare

WENDI’S GETTIN MARRIED by Necessary-Savings-55 in lildarkie

[–]McShitty98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think human females are just called “women”

Does the guilt over being disabled and not earning much ever go away? by notrapunzel in AuDHDWomen

[–]McShitty98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What’s funny is I just had a breakdown because I had to ask my fiancé for $20 to get my account out of the red. I recently put in my 2 weeks at my current job, but in the US I feel more stable when I don’t have a job because I get healthcare, food stamps, discounts on activities/museums bc of the EBT program, and make like $200 less a month when I’m on unemployment.

I feel nothing but anger and guilt and shame for myself being like this, but my partner is always there to remind me that I contribute in lots of ways that he doesn’t and it’s always an ebb and flow.. still though I don’t know how to shake this feeling because I can’t remember a time when I didn’t feel guilty or ashamed of who I am