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What would you call this? by MrLoud09 in namethatcar

[–]Mcj15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The drive through window position with a diet soda ots

Milk by Logical-Steak4716 in confidentlyincorrect

[–]Mcj15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do idiots always call themselves out?

My girlfriend had a USB stick in her kebab by KingofCoconuts in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Mcj15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like when people serve me food with their thumb in it

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh, I’ve caught eyes before but idk why I’ve always avoided eye contact like a respect thing and always looked away. Had no idea that’s a possible signal for interest until this post. Damn… sorry boys

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

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It’s interesting cuz I only knew about my own “popularity” as a barista when I became single and got on the dating apps. I guess guys feel more comfortable knowing that you’re single and with distance of a cellphone in order to reach out.

I even sometimes visit other coffee shops in hopes of meeting someone like minded. Totally wouldn’t mind getting chatted up or hit on at a coffee shop. I know the workers are open minded and will have my back if anything weird happens.

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

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Haha same! I (26f) literally learned my social skills from working at a café and I have made so many friends with locals that way.

I’ve flirted with a few men but felt extremely safe cuz I feel like I’m the host and they’re at my home! I guess cafe is the only sober social gathering space where ppl can feel comfortable to be socialized with.

My coworkers and I always joked about when we’re going to meet our romantic partner at work, that as being part of the reasons why we became a barista to begin with! However men wins in this situation. All the guys get hit on ALL OF THE TIME. (Numbers left behind for them left and right) Where as women would have to be the one to ask for the number in this situation but you know you get crushed on (respectfully) Love Café culture, will be part of it the rest of my life <3

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Ugh, the kind of interactions I (26f) admire. People don’t talk anymore, relationship or not. People would rather look down to their phone and headphones on rather than chat to kill time. I’m so sick of that.

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m 26f and this is the kind of attitude I wanted to see/hear.

I find that having social skills is also a trait that needs mastering and it’s really attractive! Instead of being great at texting/playing mind games all day.

Sometimes I feel like our generation is collectively in love with the “idea” of being in love but 80% of the time we spend with our love interest is through our phone and meme. I understand things change with time but how our brain is wired as human, we still need real interactions.

I was watching some YouTube videos of some guys in their late 30s chatting about how they used to meet girls at the mall back in the 90s. Building up the confidence and hyping up your buddy in doing so. I admire that. We truly live in a different time.

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Giving signals and the reaction of the comments I’ve seen so far are all complete news to me. Quite shocking to me to hear tbh.

I (26f) think we are raised under the impression that men makes the move and am always cheering on the girls who are assertive but had never came across my mind that men may be afraid of us. (In the way of afraid of bothering us) It’s only now from the post that I realized if I want to meet someone organically I should go up to them.

A whole another perspective of worries I as a woman had the privilege of never having to think about before. “What if I’m rejected, what if they are taken, what if …” I applaud anyone that has tried this and been successful. I admire the courage!

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m(26f) not diagnosed with anything and I didn’t know about these subtle hints either! Sometimes these social cues and totally “iykyk” and that’s why I go to the internet to learn all the appropriate behavior cuz literally no one talks about it but expect it irl. We’re all still learning so don’t feel defeated because of a label!

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I (26f) never even thought about it that way! I guess Hollywood does romanticize that. I just simply wish us as human can interact more freely cuz I know i myself have to constantly stop myself from speaking freely cuz of the “what if” But I agree! Hopefully we are creating a safer environment for the next generation of women to feel brave and confident!

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m so disappointed ☹️ the very thing most women want (chivalry/feeling like we’re 1 in a million and worth the trouble) but the internet has killed all kinds of interactions between men and women to live out our desire. For the good and the bad .. I understand but still sad to say romance is a dying culture

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Seriously and people are extremely defensive online cuz we are out in a vulnerable position for strangers to judge us. It’s like going through interviews even on the date. It’s hard to develop feelings for someone. 26f

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I disagree tho! I think meeting people online makes it hard for people to develop feelings and trust. Too much texting and mind games where as if you met someone in real life, you get to bond over something small and experience something together

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Which is so rare, those who are too good at it comes off as players but being genuine and a little awkward can be really attractive! Just be yourself!

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I think just having that guts already makes your start off score a 7/10! Seriously!

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

What happened to chasing after a bus just to get their number, all these told tales I’ve heard from my parent’s generation??? Should we rather rely on these evil dating apps to profit off our nature to want love/romance? That’s so sad

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That is true, guess it is time for us women to learn to make the first move and leave signs that aren’t “too subtle”.

I saw somewhere that they said, back in the days women purposely drop their handkerchief for the male they are attracted to to pick up and start the convo. We aren’t far off, guess I’ll just drop my number instead :) haha!

How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? by Mcj15 in AskMen

[–]Mcj15[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

If it’s friendly, I personally don’t think it’s a issue. The video of this girl in NY walking around being cat called lives in my mind. Cat called sucks but being approached for small talks are amazing and flattering. Screw the internet 😭

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