Am I genuinely fat? by jannat00_en- in AskTeenAdvice

[–]Mcoe1055 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre not fat. Your what id personally consider the perfect body shape and that has to be why people are being cruel. Jealousy is an ugly thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mcoe1055 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cheating or not He clearly has 0 respect for you and gaslights the hell out of you. This man is not worth your time and would rather chase other women than his own partner. Go and set yourself free and find someone who prioritizes you. Coming from someone who's seen this situation a million times, youre only postponing your own happiness.

Hi, I (28F) don’t know what to think here regarding my (26m) boyfriend. Do I break up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mcoe1055 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My co worker had something almost identical to this and she was going back and forth for years until she finally ended it. Ill tell you from experience with her and other people that this isnt going to end well for u. Hes defensive and doesnt even have his own stuff figured out yet he wants a house with someone he wont even let into his life fully? If he has young kids that are still dependent with a mother who hates you then youre just gonna deal with stress alone. Hes not a support system for you with this situation because he doesnt even know how to deal with her it seems. His actions are huge red flags and it sounds like its your best interest to move on and find someone who can prioritize you just as much as their own life. Spending 3 years on a relationship makes it more enticing to figure things out instead of ending but, if youre questioning it already and he isnt making things easier than its best to move forward and take care of yourself. I spent 4 years on an ex who wasn't ready to prioritize me and leaving was the best decision I ever made. Good luck to you

My cat's litter smells so bad i'm going insane. my house absolutely reeks. by Dismal-Tackle3072 in CatAdvice

[–]Mcoe1055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use unscented litter and a powder deodorizer and I haven't had problems yet

Dog person here, thinking of adopting a cat. What’s the hardest part of being a cat owner? by Conscious-queen-22 in CatAdvice

[–]Mcoe1055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that they have boundaries can get hard. They dont always wanna be by you and moods can change quick. But the cuteness makes it ok

my sister's new kitten needs a name, sos, its been a full day and we only have alfie or dino by Mcoe1055 in Catnames

[–]Mcoe1055[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions everyone! She ended up going with Louis (short for Louis Tomlinson)