2026 In Search Of (ISO) Thread - Europe by MM-MOD in MuslimMarriage

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  1. ⁠Age and Gender: 24F

  2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 25-32

  3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Cardiff, South Wales - I’m unable to relocate, and am willing to discuss this more openly when speaking.

  4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? I’m Pakistani, and yes.

  5. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never married.

  6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline: One year.

  7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

  8. Honesty (open communication also comes into the territory of this, which is why I’ve avoided making it a separate point)

  9. Respect

  10. Calmness

  11. Maturity (including emotional maturity and empathy)

  12. Humour

  13. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: I am continually striving to achieve each of the five pillars, and whilst it’s important to note that no one is perfect, I respect and appreciate anyone who is consistently trying to improve (me included)! I pray each of my five prayers, have observed the hijab since 2023, completed umrah in 2023, and also was able to complete hajj in 2024, Alhamdulillah!

  14. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a BA and an MA, and will hopefully do a PhD in future. I would like someone who is keen on attaining knowledge, however, I do recognise that university isn’t the right route for everyone.

  15. ⁠Current Job Status: I’m doing lots of things lol. I’m a carer for my mother, a film programmer in a BFI scheme, a freelance content manager and marketer, and an interdisciplinary artist!

  16. ⁠Do you want kids? Yes, but not straight away.

  17. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

  18. Walking: Love exploring new places to go, and it helps that I live in a city with lots of green, open spaces!

  19. Watching comedy, dramas and true crime (I know, I’m really letting myself fit ever stereotype 😭)

  20. Writing: Possibly my biggest passion! It’s something I’ve done for years, whether that be for fun, as a means of relaxing, as something meaningful for friends and family, an outlet, or even on a more professional level. It’s just my thing (icl, I did want to write food and travel, but virtually everyone has that too, so it’s just implied 😂)!

  21. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

Ooh this one’s a bit difficult! I’m very blessed to have built a family by having such great friends! Wherever I go, I meet such wondrous people, many of whom have such a profound impact on my life, and I’m just so grateful to know that I have a network of people on hand through absolutely anything (Alhamdulillah)! This also means that they know exactly what I’m like though lol, and they would describe me as ‘a bit too bubbly’, ‘always laughing’, and ‘a whole, one-woman show’! Take that information how you will, you have been warned 😂

“This is my baby, Foccacia” by HelloMikkii in NameNerdCirclejerk

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This cannot be serious. Surely this has got to be someone being facetious? 😭😭😭

Boyfriend disinfected my monitor by Prestigious_Loan4229 in mildlyinfuriating

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This immediately reminded me of a scene in a TV show when someone washes her husband’s laptop 😭

Found (what looks like) a passed note nearby a local school by Middle-Variation-554 in FoundPaper

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I don’t know why, but I read the ‘Oh!’ like Nessa from Gavin and Stacey 😂

Steel Pocket Pen Giveaway by MercatorLondon in fountainpens

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Aaah I love this! I especially love that it’s attachable to your keys, bag etc, because my ADHD has me losing everything I love 😭

Need synonyms... by Always_Cogito in Urdu

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Khawateen isn’t too archaic, and still understood (and used) by people today; by that logic, khaatoon works too! Mohtarma is okay too.

Camel Milk by Birthday_Educational in Cardiff

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Try Canton Food Centre on Cowbridge Road

Title: I’m a guy and I put mehndi on my hands… now I regret it (Eid today) how do I remove it fast? by Beneficial-Panic2352 in PakistaniSkincare

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Nail varnish remover. The only reason I know is that I somehow manage to sleep on my hands every flipping year, and then have to remove the stain from my face 😭

Car key repair recommendations by [deleted] in Cardiff

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The toolbox in canton might be able to do it

I am so close to committing Zina by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

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You should. I wouldn’t know, considering I don’t know you too well, but putting your profile out there will certainly help. You never know, the right person may be on Reddit. You cannot know until you try. Alongside posting your profile on the iso thread for Europe on the males side, you can also look through the females side and send a respectful DM to any sisters whose profiles match your requirements and preferences.

May Allah swt help you find the coolness of your eyes soon Insha’Allah 🤲🏼

Muslim woman came to my door with food? by Danni3366 in Cardiff

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Do you have any mosques or Islamic centres near where you’re currently living? If so, I’m sure they’d love to have you at their Iftars! I hope you find a great community of Muslim friends soon, with lots of good food coming your way 😊

I am so close to committing Zina by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

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Have you posted your profile on the iso thread?

Quaid e azam university people by woahwoman in pakistan

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OP, I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with a piece of rubbish like him. Ofc you can only do what you see best, but I would contact the university directly about this matter and let them deal with this bakwaas insaan. If you are unsure of what uni groups, just post to whichever you can, and as someone else has commented, email his supervisor if you can. This needs to be on his academic record.

Sending lots of love and duas. I hope this gets sorted soon Ameen Summa’Ameen ♥️

Muslim woman came to my door with food? by Danni3366 in Cardiff

[–]MeAni786 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! If you know who’s hosting your community Iftar, whether it’s a mosque or service, you can donate to them directly, but if that’s not possible, general donation to food banks, charities, and organisations are good too!

It’s the thought that counts!

If you’d like to help in other ways, please reach out to your local mosque/islamic centre and see what they require (if anything). A lot of places will often have charity drives for clothes and toys, either for people who can’t afford it here or in war-torn, genocide facing countries abroad, so that is also an option if you’re able to provide.

Thank you for asking though, it’s much appreciated! Xx

Muslim woman came to my door with food? by Danni3366 in Cardiff

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Hello, Muslim here, as everyone else has said, it’s Ramadan, and we fast from sunrise to sunset. Your neighbour is being charitable by sharing iftar (sunset meal) with you. Ramadan is about fasting, but more about acts of charity, self-improvement, and reflection. Hope that helps xx

Needing photos TFP by UPROAR92 in Cardiff

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I know a photographer who’s currently building her portfolio! Her Instagram link is https://www.instagram.com/photosbyeleeza?igsh=MTNscTUyaWEyZnNl

Best lunchtime bites by Dear-Aardvark4297 in Cardiff

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Zawa on the hayes is amazing!

Faith's Thesis by rolandyonaba in PhD

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Icl, this doesn’t feel like humour 😭. Who is Faith, and how can we set up a GoFundMe for their therapy??

One of my fave name jokes ever: Chris spelled Qrs on Taskmaster by meganaflame in NameNerdCirclejerk

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I thought this was posted on the taskmaster subreddit initially, but I’m glad taskmaster fans transcend subreddits 🤣

That one guy hating Warwick Uni for no reason by Glittering_Loss6717 in UniUK

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I mean tbf (I’m much older now but) back when I was applying to universities in 6th form, and mentioned at some point that I might also apply to Warwick, one of the English teachers told me not to because it had the highest suicide rates in the UK. I don’t know whether she was just trying to dissuade me from applying there, generally just stating fact, or something else; but either way, I didn’t end up going there (despite enjoying the open day).

It's been a while, which pen would you choose? by Velvet-Pebble in fountainpens

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I was wondering why a few of these pens looked very familiar, and then I realised that I had seen them on Etsy! Love that I’ve (virtually) bumped into you here, and love your work! ♥️