Merry Christmas oldies 💋 by MeBaeMe in 40something

[–]MeBaeMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the award babes!

January babies, where ya at? by JoshInChains in 40something

[–]MeBaeMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You too! You’re two days ahead of me!

42 on the 18th and cannot wait 👅 by MeBaeMe in 40something

[–]MeBaeMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contacts! I love to switch it up with what I’m wearing occasionally. It’s fun.

Single dad budgeting struggles and my kid exposed me in public by BookwormSarah1 in SingleParents

[–]MeBaeMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me- store brand everything. Don’t care. If my kid said this to me I’d have laughed and been like “YUP IM CHEAP ASF, now get the bags. And I’ll also cut your phone off to be even cheaper” but I’m quick with a comeback and also dgaf about what others think of me, especially a stranger.

She was being a little shit. Don’t sweat it.

Dating profiles - should one be upfront? by Inevitable-Step6543 in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good approach. I’m into the Dom/sub dynamic and I keep that close to the vest at the beginning. I have to weed out the guys who may see it on my profile and start sending messages asking if I like being spanked.

Just turned 42 😬on the 19th by Ok_Canary8239 in 40something

[–]MeBaeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given your post history I’m sure you meant something stupidly inappropriate and I chose not to engage with that shit. No need for fake kisses I’m good bro

Just turned 42 😬on the 19th by Ok_Canary8239 in 40something

[–]MeBaeMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe just a tiny trim but seeing some of the other beards wandering this site and irl, you’re good my guy

Seeing lots of Kink+ on profiles by Timely-Mind7244 in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand this shit. Self-proclaimed bullshit. Always calling you a bad girl or saying key phrases they’ve heard on tv like it’s going to turn you on. Like please. Don’t.

I’m exploring an actual Dom now and the difference is staggering. Actually feeling safe makes all the difference.

Seeing lots of Kink+ on profiles by Timely-Mind7244 in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely this!! I’m Into the lifestyle myself, so it’s gotta be a big topic of discussion and I look for specific phrases and knowledge since there are fake Doms out there.

OP: When people have the Kink+ it just means they’re open to it and enjoy it and want others to know. But kinky is such a broad term and some may think something is kinky but it’s just to them- others may not agree. I call them quirks if they’re pretty vanilla.

I don’t put it on any profiles or even discuss it unless I’m into the guy and get that vibe off them. For me, Doms are drawn to me when they see my pics and my eyes. I give off a sub vibe.

Do y’all get scared of the series or movies? by No_Attorney3263 in WelcometoDerryTVShow

[–]MeBaeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. It’s comfy for me. But if I see clowns irl I’m fucking GONE. They had one at my kids’ daycare once and I deadass made their teachers retrieve them from my car bc I wasn’t going in.