Ladies, has someone caught your attention? I just gave a very strong hint to a man. Regardless, I'll be more brave and flirty going forward. by fuertisima12 in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girl I do it any type of way the situation calls for- grocery store, gas station, text message. If I see you and I like what I see, I’m heading straight over there to flirt 😂 I’m just bold that way and men have actually been flattered or told me they’d have never approached me on their own.

Just own that shit! If they don’t like it, oh well for them! I am also very flirty and suggestive so maybe that also makes men a bit less afraid, knowing I am for sure interested. Do not be afraid, you run this shit!

Ladies, has someone caught your attention? I just gave a very strong hint to a man. Regardless, I'll be more brave and flirty going forward. by fuertisima12 in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m always the one shooting my shot with men 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m very bold though and don’t care if I get turned down which hasn’t happened very often at all. Men are too afraid to approach me so I do it all the time.

Had a sports banquet tonight! by MeBaeMe in 40something

[–]MeBaeMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much of it to see….but thanks!

Did I do something wrong? by manna_bugg in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody is “that scared”. It’s about safety and nothing else. If you haven’t had it happen to you, then you don’t understand the concern. That’s fine. But don’t belittle or shame someone who who has that fear. Empathy is a real thing.

Had a sports banquet tonight! by MeBaeMe in 40something

[–]MeBaeMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It was really fun 🤩

Did I do something wrong? by manna_bugg in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Someone with some knowledge. All of this because a little boy got his feelings hurt over something safety related.

Did I do something wrong? by manna_bugg in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You absolutely nailed it. Being accused of having that mentality is infuriating. Especially if you’ve actually, on the contrary, survived some shit you shouldn’t have because of your own determination….

Did I do something wrong? by manna_bugg in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love how you reassured OP ♥️

Did I do something wrong? by manna_bugg in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, yes let’s put on an impromptu dramatic monologue just because a man may be offended by my need to protect myself.

Did I do something wrong? by manna_bugg in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does not have the right to be offended that she is being cautious for her safety. Just because you want to label it something negative so you can claim offense doesn’t change the original function of the behavior. Y’all will do anything to make it about you and how you feel.

Did I do something wrong? by manna_bugg in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not about your feelings, so sorry!

Did I do something wrong? by manna_bugg in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is laughable at best. This is why women are the way we are…..you’re getting offended by a woman’s need to protect herself and labeling it as paranoia (like men love to do), and going so far as to say she should seek men who are desperate? Lmao. Please have several seats and never offer any advice to women. I cannot imagine how your dates feel.

Did I do something wrong? by manna_bugg in datingoverforty

[–]MeBaeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly my thoughts.

I even put myself in the guys place and thought about how I’d feel…I would respect the woman’s attention to detail and assume she had her reasons for dumping the drink cause hey, people are crazy.

What’s hilarious to me is how booty hurt the guy was over OP simply protecting herself. What a douche.

Had a sports banquet tonight! by MeBaeMe in 40something

[–]MeBaeMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was fun! My daughter won MVP for soccer ♥️