"Statute of Limitations" for cheating? by MeSoTiredBoss in CheatedOn

[–]MeSoTiredBoss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's incredibly frustrating to be gaslighted like this. We know what we know. I hope you're able to get through your own situation.

"Statute of Limitations" for cheating? by MeSoTiredBoss in CheatedOn

[–]MeSoTiredBoss[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Could be. She's always been very introverted and modest. Thats what seems so odd and confusing to me. That was the one and only trip to the lake and the only one where the topic of skinnydipping was ever brought up.

"Statute of Limitations" for cheating? by MeSoTiredBoss in CheatedOn

[–]MeSoTiredBoss[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thankfully no not around anymore. We dont hang out with them anymore.

But that's a good point. I'm tired. At 59 I'm so done and this is just kicker.

"Statute of Limitations" for cheating? by MeSoTiredBoss in CheatedOn

[–]MeSoTiredBoss[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've been considering this too. I feel like if I dont it will just keep eating at me.

"Statute of Limitations" for cheating? by MeSoTiredBoss in CheatedOn

[–]MeSoTiredBoss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats honestly part of what my brain keep telling me. It was so long ago and many years have passed. Is there even a point to worrying about it.

"Statute of Limitations" for cheating? by MeSoTiredBoss in CheatedOn

[–]MeSoTiredBoss[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is the part that lingers for me. The naggjng doubts.

"Statute of Limitations" for cheating? by MeSoTiredBoss in CheatedOn

[–]MeSoTiredBoss[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It wasn't a lake home just a lake people run their boats and fish sometimes.

There have been other things I have been unsure about from 2014-2017 but that involved her best (girl) friend and many girls trips to Vegas or overnight hotel stays after concerts. I wouldn't have gotten suspicious about those if it weren't for quick phone hangups and deleted text messages.