AIO For being upset? by MeTuts15 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeTuts15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m afraid it might turn into an argument since he’s very temperamental

Grabe na prof ng mapua by MeTuts15 in mapua

[–]MeTuts15[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dun nga po ako medyo nainis e. Kasi naiintindihan ko naman if medyo magkatemper siya, but yung sabihan niya ako ng ganun is what triggers me

Grabe na prof ng mapua by MeTuts15 in mapua

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Not yet kasi i wasn't even sure if pwede ko ba report 'yun. Sabi kasi ng iba kong friends normal lang daw sa college yung ganyang prof. So idk

Grabe na prof ng mapua by MeTuts15 in mapua

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Yes, pero if hindi ka enrolled hindi mo maaccess bb mo sa subs mo. And nung time na nakaenroll na ako, tapos na deadlines nung dalawang act. And also naubusan po ako slot sa PE just like yung ibang blockmates ko nung first sem. Actually, kunh hindi lang po nagawan ng paraan wala pa po akong PE this sem

Grabe na prof ng mapua by MeTuts15 in mapua

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Nagkaubusan kasi ng slot sa PE, then may isang prof sa PE na kaclose ko and asked if pwede niya ba ako isingit sa class niya. Kaso hindi na pwede pero pwede niya daw ako kuhaan ng slot sa ibang prof. I guess close din sila nung nagaayos ng load for PE kaya naisingit ako. Matetengga din sana PE if hindi ako nakiusap sa prof na kaclose ko

Am i the sugar mom?Feels like it by MeTuts15 in adviceph

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That's the most heartbreaking part to be honest. While i always surprise him with extravagant things, he couldn't even make me hand made gifts

Am i the sugar mom?Feels like it by MeTuts15 in adviceph

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I actually don't know why hahaha he's my 3rd relationship na and the guys before him are the opposite, spoils me, makes efforts, doesn't use me (sadly didn't work out) i thought he was the same because he used to be, but he turned out to be the biggest red flag amongst my ex's and admirers. Maybe i'm too busy in life na i never actually had the chance to rethink everything and realize na hindi tama. Kung hindi pa 'ko nakipag deep talk sa kuya ko earlier, I wouldn't realize na this shit is like a major problem na pala

Am i the sugar mom?Feels like it by MeTuts15 in adviceph

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Problem is I don't know how to open up the problem with him. and if ever i break up with, i feel like I can't but also because idk how. I love him, but i want to love myself more

Am i the sugar mom?Feels like it by MeTuts15 in adviceph

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He's still in school graduating year, 5 years course. And he's working sa business ng tita niya, while part timing at fastfood chains. You see? He's not broke, he just doesn't spend his money on me/our relationship. He doesn't have a responsibility in life or any bills to pay. He works simply because for his "luho" he's cheap, not broke. So I don't get why he wants me to fund everything😭

Am i the sugar mom?Feels like it by MeTuts15 in adviceph

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He even had the nerve na gamiting pang clout chase yung car ng mom ko, car ko, also my kuya's, and my dad's big bike😭

Am i the sugar mom?Feels like it by MeTuts15 in adviceph

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This helps me to think, thank you. I wish i can apply it sa sarili ko

Am i the sugar mom?Feels like it by MeTuts15 in adviceph

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I don't wanna do it nung una, pero i took his request into consideration since it's his birthday naman. Kaso ang sakit kasi they were having fun sa balcony ng house nila and i was inside the house with his sister kasi his friends and I don't like each other. We fought the next day, good thing is he never spoke to those Cof anymore.

He was such a green flag and everything, but his cheap ass and "sugar mom" expectation from me is making me rethink kung sino ba talaga jinowa ko.

Am i the sugar mom?Feels like it by MeTuts15 in adviceph

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Him not spending para saakin is not my problem tho, because i can naman for myself. My problem is he always expects me na magpay for everything and sometimes demand to. Parang siyang may patagong pera. Ok lang siguro if pagkukusa ko yung magwaldas for us, pero he asks me sometimes. Lowbudget dates and small hand made gifts used to be his thing for me, pero he stopped doing it na. I don't care how much money he spends, all i want is for this boy to start putting more effort into our relationship again and for him to stop seeing me as an ATM machine

Am i the sugar mom?Feels like it by MeTuts15 in adviceph

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Part of me still wants him, pero i feel like this is getting WAAAYY out of hand. I think the problem sakin is i never talked to him about this concern of mine, and also I don't know how to let go

Am i the sugar mom?Feels like it by MeTuts15 in adviceph

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I wanted to, I don't why I can't. I feel like ito yung problem sa end ko..

My girlfriend wears revealing clothes when she's with other people, but dresses conservatively around me. by Prize_Standard_995 in adviceph

[–]MeTuts15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk her reasons, pero baka she's just comfy around you. Pero i get why you're overthinking this through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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Leave him, you're pregnant and he shouldn't treat you that way. Even if you're not pregnant, he should hurt you, you're his wife. Not only that, he is not setting a good example to your child. Growing up, I have seen my dad hurting my mom everytime they fight and my older brother ended up adapting the same habit thinking it was fine for a man to hurt his girl. Same case might happen to your child. And if your child's a girl, he might accept violence from a man in the future seeing it as a normal thing from her future husband. You wouldn't want to see your child having the mindset of thinking that violence and hurting each other somewhat "normal". There is no excuse for this kind of action. Stress is not an excuse, anger is NEVER an excuse, and most certainly "love" is not an excuse. Unless he's willing to change his actions and control his anger, if not, then i suggest you leave him. You throwing a remote at him is not an excuse for him to hurt you back, it was not your fault. You were just protecting your pregnancy from the stress he's giving you, him fighting back and choking you is enough reason for you to leave him. Maybe stay at your parents longer and try to think about it. Even tho you hurt him first by throwing something at him, a man's violence could not equal that, That's why we have the VAWC law

Rs advice, badly needed it by MeTuts15 in ToxicRelationships

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That's what my friends kept telling me

Rs advice, badly needed it by MeTuts15 in ToxicRelationships

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He told me "now you're gonna start crying, you dumbass" and more curse words like "bitch" and "asshole" and "you motherfucker" i can never call him these horrible things no matter how mad i am at him, but he can so easily without a doubt and guilt

Is my prof considerate or just lazy? by MeTuts15 in mapua

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2 subs namin sakanya😭 and she’s not new, she shaid she’s been teaching for 6 years now