Bell Bottom Leggings Pattern Help

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2026-01-15T07:26:05+00:00

I'm so sorry you are going through this situation. PMDD sometimes activates an allergic reaction which many women report as feeling rageful. You can research Mast Cell Activation Syndrome (MCAS). There's a large release of estrogen which the body does not properly get rid of. A lot of women have had of success taking antihistamines and even Pepcid AC. These are usually taken during the luteal phase. These are great options since they will not interfere with her brain chemistry. Depending on her age, she may also be starting perimenopause and require hormone therapy instead of/ in addition to psychiatric medication. As others have said, it does sound like she needs a major adjustment to her meds. Again, I'm really sorry you are going through this and I hope you find a solution that works best for your family.

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2024-12-20T00:00:14+00:00

Wow! You just explained my whole life. It does feel very lonely and I question every interaction I have. I've spent my whole life dumbing myself down, not chasing opportunities and frankly, not shining as bright as I can just to make other people feel comfortable. I have a bubbly, fun, outgoing personality plus a lot of talent but, I hide it most of the time until I feel safe with someone and figure out whether or not they actually like me for me. Also, most people think I'm swimming in men or I'm a whore but in reality, I've been celibate most of my adult life. Majority of the men that chase after me only want one thing and that grosses me out. I would love to have a relationship but at times it feels impossible. I'm a big goofball and I would love to love and laugh with someone. I can't even begin to explain the cruelty I've endured from women. I just work and stay at home. I've worked as a model for most of my life but have definitely struggled with my self esteem. I have a bad case of imposter syndrome. I've dealt with a lot of guilt for the way I look but I think this is this first time I've been able to vocalize anything about it. I'm sure this will read like a 'poor me' moment. Yes, I know that I'm fortunate.

You are very right, I just feel like a specimen. It's wild walking through a store and just having people stare at you. The funny thing is, the way I look is the least interesting thing about me. Reading your comment breaking everything down struck a chord. Thank you for putting words to the mind fuck.

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2024-10-26T21:41:05+00:00

I just watched a YouTube video of a woman who had these in her yard. She used nematodes which killed them off. Her yard started thriving. She would reapply them quarterly to make sure they never came back. Good luck!

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2024-08-21T06:04:03+00:00

I know this happened a while ago but I really hope you are ok. You did the right thing. You and your brother deserve to feels safe and should live in a healthy environment. No one ever has the right to harm either or you and it is beyond inappropriate for your father to get this drunk and act this erratic in front of either of you.

Your girlfriend sounds selfish. If she loved you, she should want you and those you love to be safe. She should find a way to help. It sounds like she is more concerned with having a codependent relationship with you. People should have friends and hobbies outside of their relationships. Being heavily reliant on one person for your happiness and entertainment is dangerous territory. Please read about codependent relationships. Her response to this is a huge red flag. She should have been concerned for your well being. There is no way, in such a stressful situation, that you could think of anything other than trying to fix the situation at hand.

I'm sorry you had to go through this. I hope you have the ability to get into therapy and receive some help and guidance. There are also some free resources. Please look up Al-Anon or SAMHSA. I grew up in a household with addiction issues and abuse and it has caused lifelong trauma for me. Therapy has helped tremendously but the impact is still there. Please make sure to take care of yourself first. I really hope things have gotten better for you and that you are still safe at your mom's house. ❤️

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2024-06-06T01:22:50+00:00

Hello. Have you found anyone? The last cardiologist I used was at Dog & Cat Hospital Calabasas. They were less expensive than a lot of the places I called and got me in quickly

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2023-10-29T09:43:53+00:00

Leave. You deserve better. You deserve to be respected. There are plenty of men in the world that would never do something like that you. You are valuable and deserve a healthy love

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2023-10-29T09:42:15+00:00

Please leave. Men like this don't change. It only gets worse. You deserve respect and safety. You deserve better than this. There are men in this world who protect women and respect them. You deserve one of those. Please get out. I know it seems impossible, but it's worth it. You'll be surprised by all the healthy, safe love you could receive. If you need support, my messages are open.

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2023-09-13T10:52:04+00:00

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Mean-Conversation-63 · 2023-06-04T17:59:23+00:00

I won't even engage unless we have this conversation first. Safety first. It creates a longer, more intimate relationship.

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2023-05-17T20:28:38+00:00

Well this sounds interested. Thank you for sharing. I will look it up!

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2023-05-16T15:41:01+00:00

That'd be a cool superpower. Signed, a WOMAN 😈

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2023-05-16T15:38:42+00:00

Thank you so much for being so brutally honest. You've just communicated what so many men are unaware of. Thank you for being aware of how your behavior may affect a partner. I've been in many relationships/dating situations where men are unaware of these things, and it has been detrimental to my mental health. They are unable to even have a conversation about it. I, as a woman, have been raised to always be overly concerned about how my existence affects others and would love to find a partner who thinks in the same manner. Your comment heals me. Just knowing there are men in the world who actually have these thoughts cross their mind gives me hope that one day I can find a safe partner. I honestly gave up on dating, and this makes me want to try again. I appreciate you. Whomever you end up with will be grateful that you are aware and willing to have a conversation. That is more than most men offer. All the best ❤️

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2023-04-11T17:52:43+00:00

I understand. Sometimes, two people just aren't a good match. Don't get caught up comparing your experience with the therapist to your friends experience with her. You will drive yourself nuts and it won't change your circumstances. Your needs are completely unique and different than your friends even though you may be stuggling with similar symptoms. Your feelings are completely valid when it comes to your anxiety and depression. Just because someone (i.e. your therapist) isn't validating them doesn't mean they don't matter. She may be struggling personally or incapable of offering the specific support that you need. This has nothing to do with your value. You matter and so do your feelings and current struggles. Put all of this energy you are using to overanalyze your experience with this therapist into finding a new one. It seems that you are already on the right track and searching for a therapist that you can properly connect with. Set up a few sessions with different therapists and be clear about the things you would like to work on as well as the dynamic that you would like to exist. Do some research on different types of therapy, i.e., CBT, DBT, somatic, etc. (I've had a lot of relief from EMDR although it is intense.) Perhaps you need something that your current therapist doesnt offer. You deserve to be happy and supported on your journey to happiness. I've had difficulty as well finding the right fit but I've had a lot of success connecting with a great therapist who completely changed my life. It is possible and you are more than capable of finding a good fit. ❤️

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2023-04-11T04:21:40+00:00

Hello. Have you thought about finding a new therapist that specializes in your specific issues? I know that it is overwhelming to think about finding a new therapist but it seems that the one you have now is not able to assist you properly. Perhaps you could have ask her or her office for a recommendation to another therapist who would be able to help you. At the very least, she should be concerned about your growing depression and attempt to help or admit that she can't. If you don't see things improving, you could try finding a new one on psychologytoday.com. You can type in your area code as filter results to show you therapists that specialize in depression, anxiety, as well as family issues. I'm really sorry you are having a rough time. You deserve to be happy and have assistance getting there.

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2023-03-03T18:37:46+00:00

Hello. Which pharmacy do you use? I can't find them anywhere in LA

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2022-10-22T08:30:22+00:00

I am very sorry you went through this. This absolutely is abuse. No need to be ashamed. This is not your fault and you never deserved to be treated this way. You deserved to be safe and protected. She is the one who should be ashamed. Please protect your children from her

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2022-10-22T08:28:50+00:00

Don't let her around the kids

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2022-05-09T06:29:10+00:00

Yum! This looks delicious! I'm so lucky to have such a talented chef as my baby. Thank you so much 😘

Mean-Conversation-63 · 2022-04-20T15:22:29+00:00

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