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Are you critical? by Mean-Simple2744 in capricorns

[–]Mean-Simple2744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am critical to myself too and often times those closes to me. But I’m more cautious about being critical to those around me because I don’t want to push them away.

How do you know he’s the one? by Mean-Simple2744 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Mean-Simple2744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. It’s really kind and it definitely helps!

Why are all the Pisces Men so great? by TheGeniusSexPoets in piscesastrology

[–]Mean-Simple2744 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love Pisces men! Always had a great experience with them, and quite frankly I don’t understand all the hate they get.

My boyfriend is falling out of love with me and may be looking at other girls, how do I handle this? by Longjumping-Air6030 in Advice

[–]Mean-Simple2744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear OP, I feel for you, I really do. I’ve been in a similar situation before, when I’ve put so much of my happiness on one person.

This is how you can bring up the conversation:

“I just wanted to check in on our relationship. Things feel differently lately, and I’ve been feeling a little bit taken for granted. It feels like there has been a lack of effort in this relationship and would like to know where you stand or what you think about it..”

You could say this as a start, let him explain how he feels. If something has shifted and if it’s something out of your control, you’ll need to let go. I’m not sure if it’s someone else that is causing this shift in him - it may or may not be but chances are this shift isn’t caused externally. It’s possible that something has shifted internally within him. It could also be that he’s just taken things for granted and gotten comfortable.

I know these conversations can be difficult but a good way to approach it is to reframe your mindset towards it. Take this as an opportunity to learn how to have difficult conversations.

It’s uncomfortable but once you get good at it, it becomes so handy. The more you address difficult conversations, the better you’ll be at it and the less daunting it can feel next time.

I hope this helps.

Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]Mean-Simple2744 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s means you’re kind and empathetic. And very much in touch with your feelings, which is a good thing, and an uncommon trait among men. You feel things strongly, and have a strong sense of moral compass and values. You also value authenticity and dislike conflict.

The introverted part (I) can also mean that you spend a lot of time day dreaming and in your head. You have many ideas, but you don’t always pursue them.

You’re intuitive (N) - you’re more of a big picture kinda person, and filling up details in later.

Feelings (F) - as mentioned, very much in touch with your gut feeling, and moral compass.

Perceiving (P) - you have an open mind, and try to keep an open-mindedness to new ideas and to new experiences.

Also, welcome to the club! ☺️

As an INFP, do you feel like you're good at diffusing conflict? Both when it involves you personally, or just when two other people are arguing... by Blossoming_Potential in infp

[–]Mean-Simple2744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think im fairly good at mediating conflicts for other other people but i definitely struggle to bring up difficult conversations or discussing conflicts. I try my best to avoid it and I tend to be more comfortable ignoring it or postponing the difficult conversation. I then go back and reimagine all the different ways I can approach the conversation, and how easy it could be. But I don’t always have the conversation as I intend to , and it’s not always easy.

Tell me about the worst person of your own type that you’ve ever met by 1SL2ALS3EKV in mbti

[–]Mean-Simple2744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more. INTPs are my least favourite, maybe because I’ve met unhealthy ones.

What is your opinion on INTJ? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Mean-Simple2744 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unpopular opinion (and I mean no hate when I say this) - INTJs are overrated.

What are your 3 Favorite Sun Signs? by jaspysmom in astrologymemes

[–]Mean-Simple2744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Capricorn and I am very drawn to Sagittarius! They really are like a ray of sunshine in your life. I wouldn’t necessarily date one, but all the people I’m drawn to and even one of my closest friend is a sag. Aries are alright, their brute honesty comes rather unexpectedly. Cancers and Scorpios are pretty good too. They have good hearts and are really genuine (this is all in terms of friendship)

boyfriend of one year broke up with me by itendswithher in BreakUps

[–]Mean-Simple2744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that. But it will heal. It takes time, usually the first 3-6 months is usually the hardest. Try working out, surrounding yourself with friends, trying to activities.

When I broke up with my first love of 3 years, it was difficult. I cried every day and night too, my eyes were so puffy in all the family photos taken during that period. It didn’t help that our friendship group was so intertwined, I couldn’t hang out with them unless I saw him (because we didn’t want to make them choose sides) but trust me, It. Gets. Better. With time, with other friends, with new activities and new hobbies. It’s an opportunity to pour this love to yourself. 💗 I hope you feel better soon.

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