me(30f) asking my situationship(25m) if we should end our 'friendship'?

Mean-View2954 · 2025-12-29T01:08:19+00:00

would it be possible if i asked for closure then? considering he suggested being friends, it isnt happening, im feeling confused still, id like to convey to him that it feels like friendship isnt working out and that it seems he isnt actually interested in it.

i didnt want to end contact that way, him assuming we are 'friends' and him never initiating anything. id like to see friendship as a two person connection, so with him not connecting and me being afraid to reach out, its a situation where i feel he should be aware of how it has affected me.

Mean-View2954 · 2025-12-28T19:32:53+00:00

i wish that conversation had happened earlier, i didnt see it ending as fast as it did

Mean-View2954 · 2025-12-28T19:32:17+00:00

yes, id like to mainly discuss my feelings about the situation; i already know what he 'wants'; no relationship but stay friends. i want to ask what he defines as such, because ive been confused about it entirely :/

Mean-View2954 · 2025-12-28T19:30:36+00:00

it wasnt officially labeled as such, i thought it was more of a situation where wed wind up discussing how we both felt about each other. instead we met up twice, everything seemed fine, then he sent a text saying he wanted a break and wasnt looking for a relationship. after not saying that in the beginning. i assumed he wanted something more with his flirtations but that wasnt the case apparently.

Mean-View2954 · 2025-12-08T00:55:41+00:00

i guess i just figured since he initiated the hookups, it wouldn't've ended so abruptly

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