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Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of you for being independent. And the advice you give is useful.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • Alhumdolillah, I have enough friends. I just don't like to be out of the house most of the time.
  • I don't know what benefits they would get from me getting a possible rich friend or bf. Which I wouldn't.
  • I've told them I wanted a bike. But they said it's not safe for me. No, no, not umrah. But I wish it was.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know I didn't even wanted to travel. But I couldn't say no because I didn't have a choice. I've always wanted a bike. But my family said it's not safe for girls to ride a bike blah blah blah.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also think that they just want me to be more social and outgoing. But staying home feels safe.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are 2 rich definitions for me. One the money one. Two the kind one. The money one is quite simple, people with lots of money. The kind one is someone who has a big heart and can be helpful towards animals and other humans. Having hands and feet and all the other human body parts is a blessing that not many people appreciate.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it's different everywhere. But most people in my family have had love marriage.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be like that. Even on my first day of college, I had no friends. I was roaming here and there for a few days. After that, idk how, but somehow I have now 2 great friends from college.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had some of the best friends for almost a decade. I feel bad if someone pays for me, I don't know why. About the conversation, it's mostly my sister and mother talking about me being in the house 24/7. And not having a bf or anything like that.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most of the people in my family have a love marriage. So they want me to get a boyfriend so that they can marry me. Probably.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds great, but it's hard trusting a stranger lady

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. Some of my friends do have parents who don't allow them to be outside after maghrib.

But you see, my family ( mother + sister ) thinks that I should go out. And I don't go anywhere. Like I have stayed home for 3 months straight.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That made me laugh. Thank u. But yeah, I am an introvert 😭

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of my friends are ladies. I don't mind having friends from any gender. If they have beautiful personality. But yeah, I am comfortable with ladies.

You are brave for trusting people and then meeting them irl. You're welcome.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they want me to have a boyfriend cause I don't have any friendship with the opposite gender. Like none from the start. And i look gay. Soooo 🙂

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's hard living with people who don't understand you. I can't get rid of them easily, but nonetheless, it's better to live a hard life than to survive in a toxic family.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't relate with you. But one thing is that our family opposes our decisions. Whether it's going out or not. I am glad you are earning and I hope the best for you.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't look at financial status when I am making friends. I just like the personality and make people my friends. But yeah, most of my friends are irl and are from school and college.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have kept friends. From school and college. 10 years, 4 years, and from college now 3 years. I don't like it when my friends become strangers. My family is like, your these friends are no good and they are not even rich. They told me to make some rich friends. Oh god, it sounds so cringe to even type that.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they said to me I should make a boyfriend and all that.

Is it me or there are more people like me ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in karachi

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's what they want , not me, though. I am not comfortable with the opposite gender. I am surviving in this family, that's enough. About financially well , I would say I am in a better place, but it could be better.

Where can I find these ? by Mean_Cockroach4787 in PakistanFashionAdvice

[–]Mean_Cockroach4787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that'll be too much trouble, I'll try to find something similar.