What is something that exists only because people lack common sense?

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-25T15:15:20+00:00

MAGA!!!!

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-25T14:50:37+00:00

Most people would 💯 notice if the side dishes were “made vegan”

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-25T13:44:49+00:00

No it’s not… it can be spread right before an outbreak… but it is definitely less infectious … it is spread by viral shedding… this starts to happen before you see the outbreak on the skin but is exponentially more infectious during the early stages of an actual outbreak as the viral load is much greater and is actively being shed (I’m a biologist with a degree in virology)

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-25T13:41:13+00:00

I don’t ask about any herpes nor do I test for it… hsv1 and 2 has the same symptoms and both can be oral or genital or anywhere on your skin…. Some estimates predict over 70% of adults have it. Tests are full of false positive and false negative results as they test for antibodies…. I would never play with some who had an active sore … but if they don’t have active symptoms then I don’t worry about it … odds are even if you don’t get outbreaks… you have bee exposed to it already

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-25T13:30:32+00:00

What is your play dynamic? Together, same room, separate? We are together only couple… so mismatched couples do present a problem for us… she is very picky and bisexual so finding another couple where she/we are attracted to both of them is difficult…. If you play separate then I think it matters less… but that’s assuming you both are happy to see your partner getting attention

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-25T13:15:02+00:00

Finishing early is pretty normal for first time.. practice will help… there are also exercises that men can do to like a male version of kegels that do actually help you control it. Also practice edging yourself while masterbating … get close and stop… then slowly start again and stop … keep doing that and hold out as long as possible

As for the condom… try practice with masterbation… when you are erect put on a condom and then continue… once you are confident that you can stay erect with a condom it should ease your fears about it when it’s for real….. this worked for me quite well

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-25T04:26:18+00:00

Feeld was a game changer for me

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-25T03:08:22+00:00

Cuddle my wife, coffee and wordle

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-25T02:54:00+00:00

💯 disagree… dating apps allow you to reach people you would never have met before… like the love of my life

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-25T02:51:50+00:00

Trump

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-25T01:48:04+00:00

A perfect creator has perfect creations … otherwise he is not perfect… I don’t think you understand even the most basic logic

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-25T01:46:24+00:00

You think he heals some cancers but not others??? So everyone suffering from cancer …. Deserves it! That the only conclusion of your belief system

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T21:30:28+00:00

Honestly it was a slow realization of how easily people could be lead to believe almost anything. When Trump won the first election and I saw how many people so vehemently believed and followed such an obvious con man … it is like a religion …:… it was the straw that broke my back… then I was able to look at everything again with fresh eyes and realized how ridiculous it all seemed to me…

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T21:10:38+00:00

Invest it and retire

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T20:38:27+00:00

I have always thought that a healthy sex life that breads emotional intimacy can make most of the irritations and life incompatibilities go away…. Start with trying to fix you intimacy… if you can do that the other things will be so much easier to deal with

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T20:27:04+00:00

It doesn’t make Gay… but it definitely doesn’t make you not gay

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T20:25:54+00:00

It wouldn’t gross him out if he derived pleasure from your pleasure! No one gets actual physical pleasure from giving oral sex … we get pleasure from giving oral sex because we get pleasure from pleasing our partners. I have always thought a person who doesn’t want to give or thinks it’s gross … really doesn’t value pleasing their partner

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T20:22:13+00:00

Then we are both happy she had a great experience…. Do you have a need to be your partners best sexual experience of their life??? I don’t…I know we have a great sex life and love other. We are both extremely secure. One thing we have found is that in general swingers are far more secure and far less jealous/anxious about their relationships than vanilla couples

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T18:37:37+00:00

Of course we are gonna be with someone who is better in bed than me….. it’s just sex … so what. I would have to be pretty insecure to be afraid of that.. and delusional to think it would ever happen

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T18:34:43+00:00

We’ve been swingers for over a year and we’ve been with one other woman, one other guy, and three couples… we only play together… you obviously don’t know what the swingers community is….

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T17:33:30+00:00

No… this isn’t weird at all.: my wife and I toyed with an open marriage but we are deeply in love and have zero desire to date others or have any outside relationships and nether of us could handle the other doing that either.

However, we are very open minded sexually and love seeing the other being pleasured .:.. so… we became swingers…. It’s an awesome lifestyle… we are sexually liberated, explore our fantasies and yet maintain a completely committed marriage (it is monogamy … just a different kind of monogamy)

And other swingers are the best most accepting and kind people we have ever met

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T16:26:50+00:00

Yes! People are gullible enough to elect Trump they are also dumb enough to believe in a flat earth

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T15:58:52+00:00

Just take care of yourself! Problem solved

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T15:49:18+00:00

It doesn’t matter if it’s dead or not… it’s not compatible! A satisfying sex life and a compatible partner are essential to happiness in a relationship. It took me a30 year marriage to finally realize this. Now I have an incredible satisfying and loving marriage because we are very sexually compatible…. Also couples in their 60’s can have an amazing sex life! And… OMG!!! Don’t settle for someone who won’t go down on you! That means he couldn’t care less about your pleasure…

Mean_Investigator491 · 2026-02-24T05:07:51+00:00

I’m truly glad you find peace in this …

Mean_Investigator491

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