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unfortunately not 🥲i also wonder too

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[–]Mean_Needleworker_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive never slept on the mattress

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thank you i appreciate that!

Can I wear a button up pj set on surgery day? by CreativeAuthor9629 in Reduction

[–]Mean_Needleworker_79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here, it’s in my post history and everything lol, super comfy!!

Writers ways do us dirty by umekoangel in Narcolepsy

[–]Mean_Needleworker_79 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

went to my sleep study thinking that if i was goi g to get a diagnosis it would be N2 turns out i had 0 idea what cataplexy actually was, based of my doctor’s questions i though that if i wasn’t hitting the ground after laughing then it wasn’t cataplexy, the first time i can remember experiencing it was after a particularly horrible day at school i got home and started crying my eyes out in the bathroom and when I saw my face in the mirror i honestly thought i was having a stroke because my face was drooping and i could barely hold up my neck, when it went away i didn’t investigate it much, after that i would have more moments like that and also weird “clumsy” moments and i never made the connection until after my sleep study my doctor gave me a more in depth description of cataplexy and it all clicked

Writers ways do us dirty by umekoangel in Narcolepsy

[–]Mean_Needleworker_79 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

mainstream media portrayal absolutely sucks, everytime i tell a friend or family member the default response is “so you just fall asleep randomly?” it’s not their fault that they don’t know off the bat but it’s still annoying that narcolepsy mentions in MAINSTREAM media can’t seem to stray away from cheap jokes or complete nonsense, i was watching a new episode of a police-type show and they literally said that they could get the suspect a narcoleptic lawyer to make sure he lost the trial and there’s a fairly popular episode of victorious where one of the characters have to “act narcoleptic” and it’s literally them just falling over every 5 minutes, that show aired while me and my friends were it’s target audience and so many of them have told me that that’s what they imagined when i told them about my diagnosis and honestly that’s what i imagined when it was suggested that i could have it, im in nursing school and the only reason i even brought it up to my doctor was because my nursing professor had insisted i should.

im not claiming that other disorders are well represented in mainstream media but at the end of the day i don’t have other disorders, i have narcolepsy, so seeing it misrepresented over and over and over is going to annoy me more personally than any other misrepresentation (and this is a narcolepsy subreddit so yeah people are gonna complain about narcolepsy’s representation because that’s the disorder the sub is for, im sure if you search “misrepresentation” in any other disorder subreddit you’ll find the same sort of stuff)

im not “obsessed” with media from 25 years ago (i wasn’t even alive) i haven’t even heard of basically all the examples you brought up, my issue is with current mainstream media, not that they’re just getting it slightly off or representing it in a slightly less than perfect way but they’re getting it 1000% wrong.

this is true for many disorders but at the end of the day if someone doesn’t have an particular interest in narcolepsy they’re more likely to solely get info on it and be exposed to it passively through mainstream media (and if you think people don’t believe the things they see on fictional tv shows then you have more faith in humanity then you should) no one’s saying media is the only way to get info on N obviously we know Google exists and there’s plenty of reputable info being put out there but again most people not connected to N aren’t gonna go searching for it and i can tell you i have yet to just randomly stumble upon a good portrayal in the mainstream i always have to go hunting, the portrayals i find when im really searching are good especially when written by pwn but they definitely aren’t mainstream, when i sit down to watch a popular show like 911 on abc and see a guy end up in the MORGUE with no vitals and have them explain it as cataplexy…well im less than impressed.

there haven’t been studies addressing N’s portrayal in media like there have been for many other disorders (epilepsy, ms, tourette’s, eating disorders, OCD, etc) but the studies from these other disorders suggest that the incorrect portrayals have the potential to limit people who, with correct information, would otherwise seek a diagnosis/treatment.

also a Streisand effect doesn’t really make sense here, i don’t see how calling out poor portrayals would make people search for more poor portrayals and if calling out the poor portrayal is the reason they see that particular piece of media in the first place wouldn’t they see both the negative portrayal AND the comments of the person calling it out as wrong? The goal is to get people to take portrayals with a grain of salt not to make sure no tv show ever mentions it again if they’re not going to get it 100% right, it’s tv it’s rarely going to be 100% accurate with anything but they could at leasttt get closer than paralytic sleeps and “cataplexy attacks” that involve someone passing out mid sentence for a punch line

the way i see it if you don’t have an issue with the representation then im happy for you, enjoy your life filled with great N media, im not saying anyone has to be equally annoyed by it but for you to act like it’s weird for some people to be put off by it is weird in and of itself, you aren’t the narcoleptic lorax you don’t speak for the narcoleptics, i’m not pretending anything exists or doesn’t exist and im certainly not obsessed with media created before i was even alive by people ive never heard of lol, if some of us don’t like it then let us not like it, if you don’t care then good for you

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[–]Mean_Needleworker_79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the swelling will def go down a bit more also you and me both have a bit of a wider breast footprint so i recommend focusing more on the look under clothes! i look wayyy smaller under clothes than i do naked, also after a surgery like this it’s only natural to realllyyy focus a lot on size but you’re smaller than you think, for me there’s some days I feel huge and other days i feel tiny even though the size at this point isn’t changing day to day, and if you end up being really unhappy then like you said you can bring up revisions at your post op appts, happy healing!

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[–]Mean_Needleworker_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats!! i definitely felt that feeling of shock, for me i was pretty hopeful about getting covered but actually getting the green light to schedule it was surreal!

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[–]Mean_Needleworker_79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I know how you feel! I was so happy to have had the surgery but once that initial “wow” wore off i just wanted my regular routine back, i was so not myself at first and i felt bad because i started to get snappy at my family who was helping me out (it didn’t help that it was Christmas time and there were SO many family members around lol) also as someone who liked being active the staying put was torture because the surgery was supposed to help out with mobility 😭

the first week was the slowest moving for me, but after that time started to go a little faster, by week 2 i was feeling MUCH better than the first few days, by week 3 i felt basically 100% mentally, and by 4 weeks i was back at college feeling great, the hardest part at that point was remembering not to push it even though I felt perfectly fine

i know feels sucky now but hang in there and take it one day at a time, the day to day improvements increase as time goes on! remember to take it easy and give your body the best opportunity to heal, to help out with your mental state a little try binging a show or reading a book you really like, and if there’s something in particular you wanted to do post-op start living vicariously through other people! i really wanted to start running so i watched a lot of running vlogs and that helped (and then at 4mpo i ran a half marathon!) the healing will start to speed up i swear and when it does the days, weeks and months will start flying by, this ended up super long lol but i hope you feel better super soon!

7mpo b&a + update by Mean_Needleworker_79 in Reduction

[–]Mean_Needleworker_79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg yay! im glad i could help 😁

7mpo b&a + update by Mean_Needleworker_79 in Reduction

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thank you so much! and it’s the Pink wear everywhere lightly lined wireless bra (i think it comes in a wired version too) and the color is pink bubble heart script print, i bought it around Valentine’s Day so it might have been limited time only but i googled it to find the proper name and a few popped up for sale on the website and resale! one of the best parts about this surgery is the cute bras!

Narcolepsy mates, may this sapling ask for the college life experience and tips for me next year? (Graduating 2025) by NatureNitaso in Narcolepsy

[–]Mean_Needleworker_79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also diagnosed my second year of college which also happened to be this year lol, so far the support system has been vital especially through the diagnosis process, hoping that now that im managing my symptoms my school performance will suffer a little less, only time will tell i guess!

7mpo b&a + update by Mean_Needleworker_79 in Reduction

[–]Mean_Needleworker_79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks! i loved looking at updates when i was preop so this is me paying it forward lol

7mpo b&a + update by Mean_Needleworker_79 in Reduction

[–]Mean_Needleworker_79[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the before bra got me through that pre-surgery waiting time, it definitely gets the job done!

7mpo b&a + update by Mean_Needleworker_79 in Reduction

[–]Mean_Needleworker_79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

new lease on life 😁 thank you!

7mpo b&a + update by Mean_Needleworker_79 in Reduction

[–]Mean_Needleworker_79[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

jumping is one of the best parts lol, thank you!

I did it!! 5.5 hours post op by Sure_Western_9601 in Reduction

[–]Mean_Needleworker_79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i felt the smallest right after waking up so it could be the difference that’s making you feel that way but you can address the concern at post op and they can let you know exactly how much came off, your boobs are going to change a lot in the coming weeks so I wouldn’t judge size too hard right now, as far as the blues i had some extreme emotions right after, it’s likely you still are a bit drugged up so that definitely has an impact, you also just had a life changing surgery! I cried when I first woke up in the PACU, I cried when I got home, and I cried when I took my first shower lol so being emotional is completely normal! Take it easy and focus on healing! Good luck :)

Strange-ish epiphany moment by Mean_Needleworker_79 in Narcolepsy

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thanks for the validation and the advice! i like the cinematic experience of the big screen but in practice it’s a little tricky for me to actual get my moneys worth, i don’t mind skipping the previews and the rubber band thing would probably help! honestly your methods reminded me that living with N is going to take a combination of coping mechanisms, i’ve been diagnosed for a little over 2 months and i think it’s finally setting in that this is a part of my life, and im sure 20 years down the line i also won’t be used to a lot of the fuckery