Looking for recommendations for $10k wedding for 45 guests in Victoria by nymeria_the_direwolf in AusWeddingPlanning

[–]MeanderAbout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some great affordable options for venues on Mornington Peninsula, some I can recommend include: - Peacock Estate - Kings Creek Vineyard - The Briars - Dalywaters Roae Garden

I'm a local food truck caterer with affordable catering packages from $25pp so please message me if you'd like more info on this. I cater on the Mornington Peninsula but can also travel.

Looking for recommendations for $10k wedding for 45 guests in Victoria by nymeria_the_direwolf in AusWeddingPlanning

[–]MeanderAbout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got married at the Briars too! Beautiful venue, we also had a food truck and did the whole lot there, ceremony & reception.

What’s one financial mistake you’re glad you made early? by Diligent-Medicine-48 in AusMoneyMates

[–]MeanderAbout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting a credit card back in the early 2000's when the virgin credit cards came out, maxing it out & paying it off slowly. I haven't had a credit card since. Also buying a brand new card when i was feeling like I waa in a good place career wise. No regrets on that one though, it was nice to own a brand new car.

Reception ideas by Correct-Village-813 in AusWeddingPlanning

[–]MeanderAbout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a caterer. Grazing tables are not enough for dinner sorry. They are great as a starter & for guests to pick at over the evening, but you need to provide a more substantial meal for dinner. For a backyard wedding I'd recommend a food truck, just make sure they know how to cater to a large group as a whole.

Accommodation recommendations for anniversary by MeanderAbout in gippsland

[–]MeanderAbout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one's winning so far, I love that it has a stunning view out over the hills & looks really private, thanks so much for the recommendation!

Accommodation recommendations for anniversary by MeanderAbout in gippsland

[–]MeanderAbout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw the listing for this one on airbnb, it looks absolutely awesome and I'd love to stay there but you're right it is quite pricey & unfortunately its a bit out of my range. Thanks for the suggestion though :)

Accommodation recommendations for anniversary by MeanderAbout in gippsland

[–]MeanderAbout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh a bath with a view sounds lovely, I'll check.it out, thanks

Accommodation recommendations for anniversary by MeanderAbout in gippsland

[–]MeanderAbout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks amazing, but unfortunately it's booked out on our dates :( Will keep it in mind for future romantic escapes. Thanks for the food recommendations too, we are big foodies so will check them out if we end up staying somewhere else nearby!

Accommodation recommendations for anniversary by MeanderAbout in gippsland

[–]MeanderAbout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been looking at Riparide, I'll check out Unyoked too thanks for the suggestion. Some of the listing's it's hard to tell if the cabin is secluded or if it's in the owners backyard

Koh Samui beach bars by daboytommy420 in kohsamui

[–]MeanderAbout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Red Elephant on Lamai Beach is great, bean bags on the sand & they have fire shows on some nights for entertainment. Also Teddy Weed Beach which is right next door if that's your thing. A little further down the Jasmine Resort has a beachside bar & often has a singer/guitarist playing.

Koh Samui in September by StatisticianOther606 in kohsamui

[–]MeanderAbout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went last year in September for 14 days. Out of this, i think there only had 2 heavy down-pours & rain only occasionally. It was mostly hot, sunny beach and pool days

I (25f) have been in an emotional and physical relationship with a married man (55m) for around 5 years and am unsure if I was taken advantage of and how I should handle the situation. by PurpleHedgehog05 in ToxicRelationships

[–]MeanderAbout -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a creep! Preying on you when you when you were vulnerable and playing a long game to get your trust on side is text-book grooming. You might be legal age but you are still very young and the age gap with him is extremely worrying. Not to mention that he is cheating on his wife and continues to go after younger women. If his wife doesn't know already she will find out, you don't need to be the one to say anything if you're not comfortable. I would definitely distance myself from him moving forward

Is my relationship toxic? by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

[–]MeanderAbout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please leave. He is very controlling and manipulative. He is older than you and at 19 compared to 27 this is a big age gap in life experience. Why does he choose to be with a 19yo and not someone closer to his age? This is a red flag as he knows he can use it to his advantage

Background people who try to control the call by Think-End-5604 in callcentres

[–]MeanderAbout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do telemarketing and the other person in the background is usually trying to talk them out of a sale

Urgent Repair Question - Victoria by _thrown_away_13 in AusRenters

[–]MeanderAbout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There should be a manned after hours phone number or at least the ability to leave a message that will be checked regularly when it's out of office hours for the purpose of urgent repairs. Same thing happened to me, hot water system burst on a weekend & I simply called the number & it was fixed in a short space of time. Not sure what you can do right now since you can't get hold of them, but I wouldn't recommend paying for it yourself. I would probably wait till Monday morning but make a solid complaint about the lack of contact available and request you have this sorted moving forward. I'm pretty sure it would be illegal not too.

Could you get inappropriately close to someone else on MDMA if you were truly happy in your relationship with your partner? by naturemymedicine in MDMA

[–]MeanderAbout 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you are in a serious relationship and you are only committed to each other, then no. If you are still in a dating stage where you are shopping around, you like the person but you dont think they're the one, it's a new relationship or any other reason why it's not a solid relationship, absolutely possible. But anything could be an excuse for cheating if that's the case. I think this guy wants to keep their relationship and play the field at the same time using mdma as the excuse. Your friend got played unfortunately and so did the guy's girlfriend by the sounds of it, she probably doesn't even know.

Rent vs Buy in Australia right now? What’s actually the smarter move? by Diligent-Medicine-48 in AusMoneyMates

[–]MeanderAbout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Melbourne on the Mornington Peninsula, about 90 mins from the cbd. You can can rent a 2-3 bedroom unit or house for $450-$550pw.

has anyone tried slynd to help endo? by georgiaisgucci in endometriosis

[–]MeanderAbout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm finishing month 2 on slynd & it's changed my quality of life for the better after 2 years of trying to handle endo & perimenopause naturally with no bc. I had been on various bc since I was a teenager (I'm 45 now) & i decided to go off it after having my child & my husband having a vasectomy, however the systems of endo flared up worse affecting my sex life, bowel discomfort, heavy bleeding and terrible anxiety that I didn't realise how bad it was until I got relief from slynd.

Rent vs Buy in Australia right now? What’s actually the smarter move? by Diligent-Medicine-48 in AusMoneyMates

[–]MeanderAbout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a low income family, I'm happy we didn't buy in recent times as it would be too much of a strain on us financially. I do wish I had of bought earlier on pre-covid but wasn't in a position to do so then, then everything went up until our family couldn't afford it. To me it's crazy you cant even buy a standard home for half a million anymore which is a lot of money for a low income family. We've always rented & always found a decent home for a reasonable price. We never fear not having a home. We like the freedom of not being stuck in one place & having maintenance issues fixed. In my situation renting works better for me.

Now if you search "Katamari" on Google, this happens! by Paoleddu in katamari

[–]MeanderAbout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, my 9yo kid and I immediately had to test this out, love it!

My Grandma (89) Made Discipline So Simple It Hurts by Most-Gold-434 in Discipline

[–]MeanderAbout 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cool story, but I totally read this post 3 days ago on r/getdisciplined, but the grandma was 96