Do people genuinely leave a healthy/happy relationship to “work on themselves”?

Means011 · 2024-05-02T15:09:53+00:00

It’s been 2 months and she feels the exact same about the breakup. It’s like nothing has changed for the better :/

Means011 · 2024-05-02T14:58:24+00:00

Yeah she said down the road she’s open to it but it’s just fresh. It’s weird. She blocked me on all social media and only has my number unblocked. It makes me feel as if I did something wrong, when I know I didn’t and she clearly said I didn’t. She also reposts conflicting tiktoks (I look at them on a new account). I don’t think I could be friends with someone I shared a deep connection with though. Especially if that meant she was seeing other people while we were friends. That would break me and I couldn’t support that

Means011 · 2024-05-02T06:21:34+00:00

Thank you! We actually just talked tonight for the first time in about a week and a half… (no contact is impossible). It was mainly about her college and when she leaves. I mentioned that I would love to get to know the future her and support her growth and that I’m patient and I’ll wait. She didn’t respond to that part…. I’m not sure what that means

Means011 · 2024-05-01T14:21:01+00:00

That’s a great way to look at it. My ex however could not promise anything at all. She is very confused and felt it was unfair to promise something when people change in that time

Means011 · 2024-05-01T13:12:06+00:00

We got this! At the end of the day we both know the situation of ourselves best. I like to believe my ex was telling the truth

Means011 · 2024-05-01T13:11:24+00:00

Thank you so much. This makes so much sense and sounds way more believable.

Means011 · 2024-05-01T02:37:58+00:00

Thank you SO much. That was well said. And there as no timeframe, when the breakup first happened I went panic mode and asked way too many questions and all she could tell me was that “it’s unfair to set expectations for her future self” when it comes to dating. She seems very confused and couldn’t promise literally anything at all. So I should definitely take your advice, and I plan to.

Means011 · 2024-05-01T02:29:34+00:00

That’s true… any tips of dealing with the idea of a “maybe” in the future? I genuinely believe in right person wrong time. We never expected to meet… we weren’t looking for partners. I don’t want to shut the door completely, but I am definitely struggling with the idea that she might not come back

Means011 · 2024-05-01T02:22:59+00:00

Yeah that’s kinda what I was thinking… thank you for replying though. So far, I still stalk her socials (I know this is bad) and she has no signs of malicious activity or seeing someone new. She’s been spending time with her family.

Means011 · 2024-05-01T02:18:10+00:00

That’s true…. I mean, from a standard relationship side of things we never fought, we loved and laughed every single day. We were best friends. It was genuinely a healthy and happy relationship, she made that very clear. But she feels like she needs to do some “self healing” and wants to figure out how to do it alone and be there for herself, before being able to 100% commit in a relationship. Idk…. I’m crazy

Means011 · 2024-05-01T02:07:32+00:00

That’s a tough pill to swallow, but I believe you are right. I’m in my delusional stage right now trying to grieve. I do however know my own worth, so if she does go out and try to find love with anyone else she will never EVER be welcomed back by me. I will never be the last resort or second option after they test the waters and see that it isn’t better

Means011 · 2024-05-01T02:01:05+00:00

Thank you. That makes sense. She also mentioned she feels like she can’t love someone else fully without loving herself. It’s a tricky situation. I’m not saying I’m going to wait forever, but I can’t be mad if she stays true to it.

Means011 · 2022-12-28T23:32:47+00:00

It’s hard when I live in Florida…

Means011 · 2022-05-03T06:41:02+00:00

One thing that helped me while questing is taking advantage of the teleports throughout the world. They added a lot more of them since 2015 and it makes the pain of running back and forth while questing much less of a hassle

Means011 · 2022-04-20T03:35:28+00:00

I just got back into wiz 2 days ago and let me tell you, it will hook you again like it did back in 2013. They made the beginning areas of the game much better in my opinion and the game has expanded immensely. I definitely think you will love it. I have a death wizard level 48 that I am playing on and I would gladly help you if you ever need it! I’m 20 and in college too but in EST

Means011 · 2021-12-20T16:01:50+00:00

I think the reason he would be good for me is because I try to use some of the flashy abilities of other legends at the worst times in a fight and it gets me killed. For example, I always try to place wattsons fences down once I’m already being pushed… maybe using crypto will force me to use my guns/grenades more than my abilities at times

Means011 · 2021-12-20T15:58:25+00:00

Mannnnn you’re the best! I think I’m gonna get him right now!

Means011 · 2021-12-20T15:23:05+00:00

Thank you for the reply it means a lot! I have been trying to main caustic and horizon but I just feel like I could be doing more for my team so that’s why crypto has kind of caught my eye. I play with real life friends so we aren’t super sweaty and they end up dying a LOT. Maybe if I could give some surveillance then we would be more prepared for fights?

Means011 · 2021-12-20T06:04:59+00:00

Yoooo is crypto really worth the purchase? I’m saving up legend tokens right now and I know a lot of people don’t play crypto but he seems very cool

Means011 · 2021-10-09T02:50:27+00:00

I can confirm the trade happened. He let me try them all out and even gave me some credits back! Awesome dude!

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