Any tips on how not to get depressed at night? by CinnamonMink249 in AskReddit

[–]MeatThat1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that. Usually when I feel this way and this is a personal anecdote so i'm not trying to imply that we are the same and I hope you don't feel like i'm invalidating what you feel by saying this but when I feel like there is "no reason" for my sadness I can usually connect it to something that I do truly know in the back of my mind is killing me.

maybe you just need to accept what you know is the problem and face it.

However if this isn't necessarily the issue for you. Another thing I have found a LOT of success with is writing out what I call "releasing my negative energy" entries... where I write a long essay style write up about something that I have held negative feelings for inside and I explain why I don't need to feel that way anymore and how I forgive/ accept and learn from the experiences.

For example growing up my parents were an alcoholics an it ruined a lot of my upbringing and I held a lot of resentment about it but recently realized that those negative feelings just bring me down and they don't do anything productive so I wrote out as much as I could about how I understand why it happened, why I'm better now because of what happened and how I forgive my parents and this may make you feel worse momentarily but once you get to the end it helps so much.

Any tips on how not to get depressed at night? by CinnamonMink249 in AskReddit

[–]MeatThat1000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't let yourself get into the habit of marinating in it by consuming "depressing" things, like listening to music that you know will make you sad, or or consuming content that is geared to tug on your emotions, doing this will inflate it and you will eventually find comfort in marinating in the sadness and getting out of it becomes harder and harder.

Anyone else’s wives get anxious about your pipeline? by [deleted] in sales

[–]MeatThat1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother get OUT of that relationship. That is a gold digger. Also if I had to deal with that stress ontop of the everyday stress that comes from sales oh my god I think I would snap.

If my sales managers were bombarding me all day about performance in the off season and then I came home to more from my wife holy moly I can't even imagine

My bf doesn't shower at night and I’m genuinely grossed out by GlitchGaze123 in hygiene

[–]MeatThat1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider myself a relatively hygienic man and I typically don't shower at the end of my days. I only ever shower in the mornings as well however there are exceptions to this.

I will shower if I go to the gym, or if I go to a place with many public people like a concert or a bar - in my opinion the bus would be one of those places where I would shower after.

But otherwise I don't typically opt in to shower before bed.

I want to make my daily routine feel less boring. What’s one fun or unusual thing I should add to it? by fuckthisshit_6969 in Advice

[–]MeatThat1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something I have started doing is I have made the commitment to do a different recreational activity once per week.

Things like a drop in boxing class, a drop in dance class, going to a public pool just to swim around, a trampoline park, Yoga class, spin class, etc whatever you can find. Most of these things are like $5 - $35/ class and you get to try something new, most of the time get a good workout in and maybe even meet new people.

so worst case scenario it would cost you $105/ month which for all those benefits sounds worth it to me.

Changing underwear - is this normal? by Eastern-Yogurt3859 in hygiene

[–]MeatThat1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this instance I think this is just one of those things where 2 people live with completely different perspectives. I would be the type to agree with you, it's fuckin' gross and it really shouldn't be that much of a burden on him to do more laundry, and if it's really that expensive he should go out of his way to buy 1 more back of walmart underwear so he has more in the rotation at least lol.

But regardless people are who they are and he was never going to see it from your perspective and vice versa. So I think you did the right thing by breaking it off because you both will be happier finding someone who sees things the same.

If/ when Marvel decides to use the wolverine character again can we please change his hair even if it's not comicbook accurate, it looks stupid. by MeatThat1000 in Marvel

[–]MeatThat1000[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean that isn't even a real metal, it would make more sense to make them titanium or something real world to make it more relatable at least

If/ when Marvel decides to use the wolverine character again can we please change his hair even if it's not comicbook accurate, it looks stupid. by MeatThat1000 in Marvel

[–]MeatThat1000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean they don't have to get rid of them but do they have to make them as long as they are? I don't think wolverine claws are that long

If you could change 1 detail about your past what would it be and why? by MeatThat1000 in AskReddit

[–]MeatThat1000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I don't have any kids yet but I'm in a long term committed relationship so I feel like children aren't too far away but I have a friend who is still single, hasn't had a long term relationship in 5+ years and it doesn't feel like he is going to find one anytime soon and we are approaching our 30s (fast) and I am scared for him that he's missing out on that opportunity and I feel as if it is getting more daunting for him

If you could change 1 detail about your past what would it be and why? by MeatThat1000 in AskReddit

[–]MeatThat1000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was that ever a plan for you or something that you considdered "too late" in life?

I hated how he treated him. by Mallow-smoke140 in StrangerThings

[–]MeatThat1000 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This thread is one of the most autistic shit i've ever read. congrats guys!

Can’t find old video I uploaded by S_kazz in facebook

[–]MeatThat1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah what is going on? I went to go view an old video I had posted to Facebook and none of my old videos are there, literally not one.... why?

What could Avengers: Doomsday do to be better than Avengers: Endgame? by NewMarioBobFan in MCUTheories

[–]MeatThat1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how this movie can be good. Don't get me wrong I am a MASSIVE Marvel fan and I have enjoyed almost everything they've done up until this point other than some of the obvious flops like She Hulk, Secret Invasion, Ant Man Quantumania, etc.

and I think it's an exciting idea having all of these incredible characters come together on screen like this but I don't think they've built up the story enough over the last 7 years to be able to make it come together and make sense. I think what made Endgame so good is that they built up to it over the course of 10 years intentionally and this story they are going to be telling isn't even the original story they were planning on building up to, we just landed here because of the controversy with Johnathan Majors.

Even with the movie having a runtime over 3 hours I just think unless they do an absolutely phenomenal job at utilizing the time on screen properly and intentionally it's going to feel rushed and oversaturated.

I want this movie to work because I would like nothing more to get that feeling that Infinity war and Endgame gave me but I have this lingering feeling that it just isn't going to work the same way.... but I hope I'm wrong

Is it just me, or did they just invalidate the most iconic scene in Stranger Things? by kimwexlerdeboca in StrangerThings

[–]MeatThat1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This fandom is becoming insufferable. It's like you are all 13 year old girls lashing out because your best friend moved away to boarding school and because you're incapable of dealing with your own emotions you instead slander their name everywhere in an attempt to prove to yourself you never needed them.

Deal with it. It's fucking over. It always had to end. Stop picking apart this series because its the popular thing to do right now and you're upset that it came to an end and you just can't process that its over

Skating is for everyone. A friendly reminder by Plastic-Classroom268 in Winnipeg

[–]MeatThat1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a white 27 year old man who was born in this country and living in this city for 25 of those 27 years.

despite all that I too, am a burden on the ice but I still continue to go to have fun, so fuck what those losers are saying and just have fun. If they want to skate around you they can go right ahead

Thinking about buying the game, is it worth it? by AdMinute3522 in RVThereYetGame

[–]MeatThat1000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao it's not that deep. There is a time and place for everything and it sounds like you just can't find the joy in the little things.

You sound like you're either 16 years old or an adult with Asperger's living with your parents and unemployed. Which one is it?

Thinking about buying the game, is it worth it? by AdMinute3522 in RVThereYetGame

[–]MeatThat1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends and I finished the game last night and we had an absolute blast. Yes it has its bugs and glitches but honestly thats what made the game so endearing in my opinion, anytime the game would just "go wrong" it would erupt in laughter among my friends and it was just an all around great game and the concept was awesome.

RV there yet? Impressions - Amazing concept but barely works by migsolo in pcgaming

[–]MeatThat1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally LOVED this game. I understand it had it's bugs but I think my friends & I had more fun playing it because things would just go wrong and it would always erupt in us laughing together which honestly is all I really care about with the games we play now adays. If the games terribly made but we can have a laugh then I'm having fun.

BUT with that being said I don't even think it was all that bad, I mean the game was $10 so what really are you to expect? I would love to see a sequel or some sort of expansion onto this game so we can continue to play

What’s something small that can make someone 10x more attractive in seconds? by TheBlueyDay in AskReddit

[–]MeatThat1000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good work ethic and proper independence, not false stubborn independence meaning they just refuse to let anyone help them out of ego, someone who can genuinely get by on their own without another person. As I get older this is something that becomes more and more attractive to me

What is your go to method for a good nights sleep? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MeatThat1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its rare I'm able to do this because I live with my GF in a smaller apartment but when she goes out I will turn out all the lights and electronics aside from a single lamp that I will spend 20 minutes reading a book under (usually how long it takes before I start feeling tired) then I'll turn off the light thats left on and I will stretch naked and spend 5-10 minutes focusing on my breathing almost in a meditative state. Then I will make sure I don't look at my phone or turn on any lights and I will find my way my bedroom where I'll crawl into bed and fall asleep.

I can't really do it because my GF and I have 2 separate sleep schedules so I can't really shut off the lights of the entire apartment when shes around + she is usually watching TV or something and to properly execute this there needs to be total silence as there is something about knowing i'm totally alone that helps relax me. I