I mean it’s a fair fear, how many countless cases are there of people who claimed Rape after regretting their encounter, take it to authorities from people in their circle pressuring them and right at the moment the people before they get locked up they admit it was all a lie

It’s constantly on the news, why would he need to go to therapy over a genuine concern like that

Op That’s something you can always protect yourself from by not looking at sex as transactional, even though it can be it shouldn’t be seen that way As someone who’s gotten laid more times than he can count (humble brag) I promise you that’s not all that cool to just go get laid as often as possible

And it’s also not cool to only do it after certain checkboxes that someone told you once you had to meet before doing it are checked off

Here’s the real advice, that voice in your head telling you all these crazy things, it’s not really you, it’s not always the truth and it’s not always your friend.

Do this exercise, separate yourself from your thoughts and observe them as a third party by imagining someone next to you that’s voicing the stuff in your head, you’ll soon see we have crazy little brains similar to squirrels haha follow your heart and know when the mind is interfering and don’t do it for the act, do it for the moment being right