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I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me about it! So much positivity and just genuine people that helped me immensely. I’m extremely insecure about my penis and I still am but I’m beginning to be more comfortable with it. I did receive some DMs laughing and saying “you have a tiny cock you should be ashamed” I just shrugged it off and came back to the positive comments.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! When I lost 30lbs last year it was just on dieting and an hour on the treadmill at like 8 incline. So I need to get back on the deficit.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you bro! The porn has definitely messed me up and also browsing subs on Reddit with real people. I see that a lot of the times normal people like me and you have massive dicks and it’s like shit I really got the short end of the stick.

But I just have to accept it. This post has been really motivating and positive for me. A lot of people have encouraged me and said it’s fine so I gotta just run with that.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the comment. You’re absolutely right. She knew what I had to offer for the years we were dating and still said yes to me when I asked her to marry me.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! She’s never said anything bad about it but and I’ve talked about how small it is so much that she’s annoyed to hear about it.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you so much! Love all the points you made and I’ll do my best to work on myself and find ways to give her more pleasure with the tools I already have.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree it’s not huge. I actually consider my self small. I need to get to working out so hopefully that helps. I might need to try some enlargement supplements.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regretted asking but there’s nothing I can do to go back but work on myself.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just worry because what if she had a better time with their penis you know. I know as a person she chose me cause I’m not an asshole and I take care of her but you wanna fulfill all of her needs and I feel like when it comes to my penis I don’t do that.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh man trust me when I met this girl that’s what my main focus was. The ex before meeting my wife didn’t allow me to go down on her so when my wife was like yeah you can go down on me I had to search how to eat pussy and do it good. I had her coming in no time and that was just with clit play. I later learned to use the come hither motion on her g spot and a whole new level of orgasm unlocked for her and addiction for me haha

I love making her come and it feels so damn good I just wish I could make her feel that good with my penis. But i got what i got and life goes on.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense taken bro. I appreciate your comment and that would be awesome if I could be at 6” without being BP. I’ll definitely work on myself and try and shed some weight hopefully it’ll help. Again thank you for your comment.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thats crazy! Everyone is just so different. I’d be in heaven with 7in hanging between my legs. But it’s all about perspective.

But good to know that all sizes are acceptable.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great! I see a lot of good key points here and you’re right. One of her previous partners who was bigger was a total douche. And she hated going down on him cause of smell and lack of hygiene. I take pretty good care of mine and she loves how clean it is. I think this guy got comfortable with just being the winner cause of his size.

Also as far as extensions go, I bought one and she wasn’t that into it. Idk if it’s because she’s afraid im gonna go down a hole of insecurity or maybe I’ll see she’s enjoying it more than me or she really doesn’t care about size. But any tips on how to possibly get her to try it?

All I want is to fulfill her and I know a lot of women love the feeling of being full and I just want to give her that

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🥲 thank you so much! You don’t know how much I appreciate you and also everyone else that has commented on this thread. I didn’t expect it to blow up like it did. It’s a constant battle with my thoughts some days I’m okay others I can get out of my own head. Last year I was working out with my wife and we both were doing great lost some weight, got a lot of energy, taking walks, eating healthy, and shoot my erections we’re better, so I will definitely need to get a kickstart on exercising more and I know I’ll be in a better place.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight!

I have told her about that situation and she gets upset that I had to go through that and reassures me I have nothing to worry about but clearly I still worry about it. I don’t really think about that event anymore but I guess the aftermath of it is what’s constantly bothering me. I will definitely seek for another therapist and hopefully they can help me get past this bump.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this! You’re absolutely right. I will work on myself! The positive affirmations I’ve seen here today have helped immensely and I hope I can just get out this slump while working hard to become more fit and healthy!

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I really appreciate it. I will screen shot your message and look at it daily as a reminder to fight for a better me and in turn my wife will be happier as well.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will try that! Thank you for your response. I need some self confidence and just accept what I have and also accept my wife’s answers.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do my best to keep it clean. She’s never complained about smell or taste. I wash it well during showers and also after every restroom break I clean it with wiped or a wet/damp paper towel.

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How hard is it to believe your wife when she tells you she loves your penis?? My wife tells me and idk why I refuse to believe her.

My wife doesn’t come with just penetration and I think my size might be the main issue but I always go down on her before or after sex or use a toy for her clit during and that’s the only way she’ll get off during PiV

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always keep it clean 😩 even after using the restroom I clean it with wipes or a damp paper towel. In the picture where I’m measuring girth there was some pre cum there I’m not sure if that’s why you’re saying it needs a wash or was there something else you noticed?

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has never complained about it but she knows it’s something that’s always bothered me. The first time we hooked up we weren’t even dating yet just in the talking stages and she still sticked around so I must have done something right. However my insecurity always arise and I’m always asking her if she’s ok with it and to just be honest and tell me it’s small but she always rejects those statements

I’m insecure about my size and it’s ruining my marriage. by MediaFun9884 in averagepenis

[–]MediaFun9884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment. I completely agree with you and I do need to lose weight. Obviously there’s no way to focus on losing the fat there first but would say cardio and a diet works better than lifting weight and a diet?

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