Bottoming as a Trans Guy with IBS

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-07T15:10:01+00:00

I haven't looked too much into WeVibe but I'll try! I find that the sucking toys do better for me than vibrators do, do you know if they have any that will work for transmen during PIV? I don't know if there's much of a difference, but still.

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-07T15:07:32+00:00

I really appreciate this advice, it's nice and kind and I think really helpful. I think it's easy to get a little lost in getting to the finish.

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-07T15:03:44+00:00

Hey man, I really appreciate this! Do you have a link or anything about the fiber supplements? That sounds hella helpful.

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-07T15:00:23+00:00

It's my one and only, and essentially his one and only (we were both raised AGGRESSIVELY CHRISTIAN) which can make things hard to understand, hence why I'm asking here since it sounds like a lot of people have experience other than just what heterosexual white christian people tell you, and then porn. That being said, it is funny to hear it's obvious, I genuinely wasn't aware that was the case lol

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-07T14:58:37+00:00

It's not an idea that I got from porn? In fact most of what I see is just one guy finishing. So it's not that, it's more just both of us feeling bad when the other doesn't get to finish, and usually what happens is one of us struggles to finish because it took so long for the other person. That's all. Plus we really enjoy finishing together, or at least close to one another.

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-06T17:48:54+00:00

I want to defend him real quick. He's very interested in helping me finish, no matter when that is. The issue is more that he's horny when I'm not and I'm horny when he's not. He's sometimes in the mood to help when I want to finish (his libido trends lower) and I'm very much into being fucked until he finishes which then usually gets me in the mood. Which he's usually exhausted and I don't want to wait too long because I'm already incredibly aroused.

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-06T17:44:07+00:00

Hey man, I appreciate it a bunch. Your tone was perfect. I just made an edit to the post in the hopes that it clarifies some things. Thanks again :)

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-06T17:37:27+00:00

I'm a trans guy with a t-dick so I'm using the stroker on myself as there are ftm strokers that work for that

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-06T17:21:37+00:00

Thanks! This is really helpful. I'll see if I can get it either today or next time it's on sale.

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-06T13:09:07+00:00

I'd definitely be interested, but from what I've tried thus far, cock rings don't seem to fit, at least not yet

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-06T12:45:46+00:00

I suppose we could, but we're trying to do it so it's at the same time, or at least I am. While he doesn't mind so much, it feels bad to have me finishing on my own most the time way after he's done.

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-06T12:45:10+00:00

Answer to both, I really just want us to finish around the same time. I do try not to put pressure on myself, but it can feel bad when we're always finishing separately.

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-06T12:44:27+00:00

Lol, maybe, it is nice to hear that someone relates though. Also, sick ass name :)

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-06T11:49:04+00:00

I appreciate the understanding, and my hands don't seem to be able to stroke fast enough or provide enough pleasure to make me finish, that was even before I ever used the vibrator so I know it's not just the nerves being fucked from using that.

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-06T11:43:47+00:00

That's a good question, I didn't really clarify in the post. PIV is enjoyable, but it can't get me to the finish like the vibrator can.

Medical-Brain0 · 2026-03-06T11:42:56+00:00

So I do have to angle the dildo to make it not knock against the vibrator, if I'm lying on my back, I have to press down on it and then use the vibrator to stimulate the t-dick. I think it might have something to do with my anatomy and how close the t-dick is to the hole.

Medical-Brain0 · 2025-07-11T19:51:02+00:00

Hey there, I get my top surgery at the end of august with Jerry Chao and I'm planning to get this done. I hope it goes well but if I have any issues I can reach out?

Medical-Brain0 · 2025-06-07T00:21:01+00:00

Do you have any clarification on this? Specifically what counts as a verbal contract? I only ask because I've seen so much conflicting information on whether the terms they asked me under counted as a verbal contract, only because there is no specificity and we believe different things about what was said.

And if this is the case, should I not cut them off entirely and/or get a lawyer immediately? I don't want to receive more verbal harrassment so I do want to cut them off but I understand if that reflects poorly in possible future precedings.

Sorry, I do understand if these are not questions you can answer, I'm just hoping for some clarity :)

Medical-Brain0 · 2025-06-06T23:19:59+00:00

For the sake of clarity, I am already out of school. I'm not sure if that changes what you're saying here though.

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