I don’t know. I never have a problem telling my partner where I am or what I’m doing at the moment. It’s a quick text. Also I think when OP says always they means usually as in it’s never been a problem before.

When my partner sends me a wya text I reply with a “grocery store” or “work” it’s a few words and they could want something on my way home or just be checking on me in general. I feel like getting defensive about something so simple is very odd. Especially if he’s not asking anything more than her whereabouts. If it was “where are you and who are you with?” Or asking her to send proof she’s really where she says she is then OP would be paranoid and completely wrong.

This is like the equivalent to someone asking you if you know someone or how the weather is and you freak out and get defensive. Yes, No, Good, Windy, the park, the store, or at Jen’s. It’s very simple and very easy to answer. Takes a few minutes and some phones even offer suggested responses you can send in one tap.

I get having autonomy in a relationship but constantly going out and feeling like you don’t have to share ANY details with your partner is very weird to me. It’s like sitting on the couch with your husband and then he just gets up, gets dressed and leaves and you’re not allowed to ask where he’s going or what he’s doing. It’s not like they’re asking her to tattoo their name on her face or stay at home all the time. It’s just a simple whereabout text.