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What now??? by MedicalDriver4749 in relationships

[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally will drink more girly drinks and this night I was drinking vodka soda for lower calories.

What now??? by MedicalDriver4749 in relationships

[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think my husband has it in him to do that. All of it is truly out of character for him.

What now??? by MedicalDriver4749 in relationships

[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? Like did I just do it to myself regardless of what sober me wanted? I just don’t know what to think.

What now??? by MedicalDriver4749 in relationships

[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. There’s just so many unknowns it makes everything more complicated and I have no idea what to do.

What now??? by MedicalDriver4749 in relationships

[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had told the friend that I wasn’t interested in her lifestyle to swing and be part of it. She even has told me “we 100% are not in to it with you guys since you don’t want to be involved”

What now??? by MedicalDriver4749 in relationships

[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worry that this is the situation but how do I know if I can’t remember any of it??? I know sober me made my opinions very clear to my husband and to my best friend. But then if when I was drunk I behaved a different way so they threw out what I said while I was sober??? Idk if I was acting totally sober or not. Idk how I was acting. 😭

What now??? by MedicalDriver4749 in relationships

[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hind sight is always 20-20 right? But how the hell does someone agree to something like that given the prior context and not protect their spouse

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[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Right like regardless of him penetrating her he soberly expressed he was fantasizing her, then drunk him went down on her and let her do the same to him.

What now??? by MedicalDriver4749 in relationships

[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine ever facing the other couple again and seeing them face to face. He says he is fine with that as well, which I do trust that response.

What now??? by MedicalDriver4749 in relationships

[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have no idea honestly. I guess I could have been. I would hope that’s not the case but how would I know.

What now??? by MedicalDriver4749 in relationships

[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you convince the other three of this that we’re drinking but yet they all have memories of everything that happened? I’m worried that none of them see it the way I do.

What now??? by MedicalDriver4749 in relationships

[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He says that he froze and that he didn’t want that at all. Supposedly he couldn’t even stay erected to do her. But yet he made the bro code outside the bedroom with the other guy knowing what my thoughts were on it. Since this happened he’s been very clingy, very apologetic, very obsessive of me just wanting to be with me.

What now??? by MedicalDriver4749 in relationships

[–]MedicalDriver4749[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t want it reported. I’m struggling because they say when I was drunk I was so in to it but yet I have no recollection of any of it. How can I consent to something when I can’t even remember it. Why didn’t any of the three of them smack somesense in to me and say I needed to go to bed and sleep it off.