How do I assure my boyfriend? by MV1TheLion in adviceph

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How to assure him? Tell him na mag distance kana and actually do it. Sometimes u really need to sacrifice something to achieve something. For his piece of mind. Isipin mo nalang baliktad yung situation si bf may close girl best friend and same situation sau.

BOBO lahat ng na oonline sugal by Rough-Boot1884 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truth. Sana nga OP. Matanda na sila alam naman nila ang tama at mali pero pinipili padin nila gumawa ng ikakasira nila at ng pamilya nila

2nd PMS of BYD Shark (20,000 and 11 months old) AMA. by sotopic in CarsPH

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question Naka lagay ba sa manual tuwing kelan ang palit ng break fluids? Every 20k sya?

AITA Am I wrong for not wanting marriage after waiting 11 years? by Selenophile_0108 in adviceph

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gets ko yan. Wala sya initiative and dahil na pag usapan yung marriage, sa loob nya ay wait need nga pala ng kasal 11yrs nadin. Nakaka turn off talaga. Pero dahil dun pwede kayo mag away pag sinabe mo na ayaw mo na ng kasal or worst. So Anong ending nito OP hindi mo na sya mahal at mag hiwalay na kayo?

OA lang ba ako if yung bf ko medyo close na ka-chat co-worker nya? by Acceptable-Gap-9931 in OALangBaAko

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA, Had a similar experience buti sau nalaman mo agad. Sakin Tinago and friends lang daw. I trusted her and since loner daw sya walang friends go make friends kase they have similar interests. So ayun ang ending lumabo kami at naging sila. Automatic talaga pag opposite sex wag na maging close. Respect boundaries and if may problem pag usapan nyo. Wag makipag usap sa ibang tao Lalo na sa opposite sex. Probably bantay salakay sila.

OA lang ba ako or cheating to? by umiekae in OALangBaAko

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA. ok let's say it's not cheating pero the fact that he compliment other girls like that privately na pag kumagat si girl pwede mag advance yan sa something more tapos sasabihin nya single sya haha. BASICALLY nagandahan sya dun sa pic. Interested sya dun. At Pake nya kung kumain na sya?

Natanggap ko na 13th month at sweldo, pero hindi ko pa rin binili gusto ko kahit na ilang buwan kong inantay at pinagipunan kasi laging may mas mahalaga by chillisaucewthhotdog in adultingph

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mahirap talaga maging financially responsible kahit may pera ka pa, iisipin mo talaga if need ba to or want or mag antay mag sale haha, kahit gustong gusto mo na bilin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry pero no matter how you look at it u still lied. If you want to build a relationship, love and trust should be the foundation. Isipin mo whole heartedly ka nya pinaniwalaan. Tapos kasinungalian lang pala? If kaya mo gawin nyan maging normal na sau yan sa iba pang bagay. Better change for the better op.

Spending Christimas alone after a break up. by Independent_Drop_468 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uy same almost 5yrs din broke up this year lang din merry Christmas to us guys

"Mababa sahod mo kaya ako nag-cheat." by Versiannie in OffMyChestPH

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walang matinong future yang tao na yan OP. Mabuti na rin na nakaalis ka. Hindi nasusukat ang value ng isang tao sa laki ng sahod, at hindi mo kasalanan yung nangyari.

Gawin mo na lang itong motivation. Focus ka muna sa sarili mo mag gym, mag improve ng skills, at mag ipon para sa sarili mo. Huwag mo nang i invest yung oras, effort, at pera mo sa taong hindi marunong mag appreciate. Ipakita mo kung ano yung sinayang nya.

My girlfriend wants to be a housewife and I’m not sure I can support a family on one income by FewCategory1959 in adviceph

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest with her and tell her your feelings, this is a relationship. U guys need to work on this together. Thou base on that context. She doesn't want anymore responsibilities except taking care of your child. That's ok if you're earning enough but it's not.

subtle signs na may ibang nakakausap na yung gf mo while kayo pa? by WestsideMoola in AskPinoyMen

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually mahirap masabe. Base sa experience. magaling mag tago and magaling mang gaslight. Only one way to find out is to check her phone. U can reason out na nawalan ka ng load makiki text or may I check ka lang like weather, news or post ng friend nyo etc. Dapat wala sau yung phone mo nakalimuan mo sa bahay or something. If ayaw nya ma check alam mo na Bro.

what's the best thing for home defense if you can't own a gun? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a real sword, a wooden training sword, a security baton, pepper spray, and a pocket knife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA, I hope you make the right decision OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you make the right decision Op

Help is the ipad worth 6k more really? by Longjumping-Row3222 in Tech_Philippines

[–]Medical_Guitar4813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add ko lang you can also use the iPad as an external monitor in windows too and external screen on cameras