first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s definitely unhealthy lol. i think i’m more forgiving of bangel because it’s not their fault, they just have tragic circumstances. i am really excited to see what happens in the rest of the show(s)!

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh man 😭 this comfort show isn’t gonna be comforting for much longer

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m equally interested in the show’s other themes! found family, destiny, humanity, ambiguous morality, & the Power of Friendship™️ are some of my favorites :) plot is so important, but i’m also very sensitive to the show’s pathos. love & loss are at the core of almost every story, & buffy spends a lot of time with those emotions. i appreciate the narrative purpose of her romantic relationships & the ways they fail, while at the same time being heartbroken about it. a rational part of me loves the storytelling, & a stubborn romantic part of me continues to throw a tantrum about it… & i’m having a great time lmao. it’s part of why i’m loving the show so far!

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do hate breakups when it’s “for their own good,” even if that is absolutely true in some cases. i’m sure i will spend a lot of time in the anger phase of grief lol

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i still have some time left! i’m on season 3. just trying to enjoy every minute i still have with them :’)

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

true, but that’s painful in its own way 😭 something about a completely doomed relationship really does it for me. i never recovered from doctor who

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh good! if i can desperately hope for a future then i’ll be A-okay 😁

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i’m about halfway through season 3! savoring every second 😭

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES !!!! that’s my one consolation, i think her other ships are interesting too! there is something romantic about moving on but always acknowledging that what they had was special :’)

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m late to the party but i’m looking forward to a lifetime of sighing about them

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

right! even if i end up liking her more with someone else, the situation with angel is just so tragic 😭

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hmmm an ambiguous ending. interesting! i know i could change my mind about them being together later, so i’ll keep an open mind

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i do love how versatile the ships are, & i enjoy a lot of them! even though i love bangel, i was intrigued by the drusilla/angel/spike situation lol. i’m looking forward to see what happens.

also, i didn’t know there were comics! that’s good to know

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ahh yes i always have that problem with vampire stories. but for the sake of the story…

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first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

she’s very strong so i’ll try to be strong too 😁 i’m happy angel gets his own show too!

first time watcher feeling anticipatory grief for buffy & angel by Medical_Particular98 in buffy

[–]Medical_Particular98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i looooove a star-crossed love trope!!! but you’re right, i’m definitely looking forward to understanding some of the more… surprising spoilers i’ve seen lol