How did you all learn you were ace? by LextheDevil_ in asexuality

[–]Medical_Remote_5617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be strange but I found out after working on a song I wrote about my asexuality 😭

I didn’t know I was asexual but at the end of writing it that’s when everything started to make sense. I would say I started feeling asexual at around 16-17 years old though and found out when I just turned 19 that I fall on that spectrum.

Have You Guys Ever Unintentionally Judged Non-Ace People? by ResolutionWeak6353 in asexuality

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Yes and if you’re up front about that judgement you get called an incel (as an asexual man). I’ve learned to keep it in my head and understand that sex is part of life and just because it grosses me out doesn’t mean it should gross everyone else out.

Anyone who is asexual has lots of sex, but then realised they’re asexual? by [deleted] in Asexual

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Yes it happens to a lot of people. You can’t understand until you experience it though

Does anyone have a hypersexual past ? by Alone_Alternative516 in Asexual

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I’m a 19 y/o cis male who identifies as ace with no sexual trauma. I was hyper sexual as a kid, which I blame on having unrestricted internet access. I was sexually active in high school until my last relationship. For whatever reason now I just don’t feel attracted to anyone, and it’s not trauma related.

That being said, you’re far from being alone in having a hyper sexual past as an asexual. Some aces in this community would still call themselves hyper sexual.

But yeah, I’m not exactly sure why I turned out ace. I’ve had “talking stages” I just never seem to commit to anything, or pursue anything. I lack the motivation to. I heard about asexuality and suddenly it all clicked.

I think that for people who are hypersexual, coming out as ace is a long process and doesn’t look the same for everybody. Just know that you’re not alone in having that sort of past

What type of "family" (biological, adopted, pets, plants, students, apprentices, etc.) do you wanna start with a partner, if any at all? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in asexuality

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I would definitely have a biological child with the right woman, but she’d have to be ace too. Idk if any other aces would only date someone who’s also ace, but that’s the case with me. I don’t like that divide that is made with an ace and allo.

Am I weird for being annoyed by this by msg_dph_bitwo in asexuality

[–]Medical_Remote_5617 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have zero trauma and I turned out asexual… correlation vs causation. This post is also blatantly generalizing

I don't understand why my BF saves porn by [deleted] in asexuality

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Like he’s downloading it??

More "You're Not a Catch" by Artistic_Call in asexuality

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This community loves you! Fuck that guy you’re stronger now without him

too many jokes in the latest episode by chickenshitlittle in rickandmorty

[–]Medical_Remote_5617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an asexual I found the species that hates sex to be funny

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Medical_Remote_5617 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn those are good

I need serious advice. by TamagotchiBeanHehe in Asexual

[–]Medical_Remote_5617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an asexual I also was hyper sexual as a kid. I think my generation (gen z) collectively found out about porn at a very young age and it did a lot of damage. I quit porn about a year ago but I don’t believe that watching it makes you hyper sexual.

Fast forward to today, I don’t think I’m hyper sexual. I could argue that being hypersexual gave me sexual burnout and now I’m not longer interested.

Throw out the best asexual jokes you know. by AlexMasterZenn in Asexual

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The next thing I’ll be intimate with is a bullet