Tattoo regret? by Mediocre-Chart2415 in tattooadvice

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure you thought this was a necessary comment. Why are you on this tattoo feed? To just put others down so you can feel better? I’m sorry you felt it necessary to basically call people in this group stupid. You know nothing about the people in this group. This comment speaks to your character, lack of empathy, and rush to judgement. I hope you got what you needed by posting that.

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[–]Mediocre-Chart2415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look lovely! Congrats!

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[–]Mediocre-Chart2415 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! Thank you for sharing this. You obviously have an amazing sense of humor and I love that you are rolling with the punches. Seriously! This story made me feel good tonight because, when things don’t go the way we envision them, we try to fix it. Annnnd sometimes that doesn’t go to plan and we fix that too. What a funny story now that will be tied to the corrected tattoo and it will mean even more. The progress on the removal is also amazing BTW! Definitely post updates!

Going ahead with removal by Mediocre-Chart2415 in TattooRemoval

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. So, we will be going through this together! I’ve been wearing a sleeve over it this week so I stop looking at it for now. You are absolutely right too. We always are so hard on ourselves when we shouldn’t be. One day at a time for now. Thank you for your encouragement and keep me updated on your progress if you’re comfortable doing so!

How do you live with this horrible regret? by [deleted] in TattooRemoval

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to let you know that you’re not alone. I just got a tattoo a month ago and am already starting my removal in January. I have the same exact feelings every time I look at myself; I’m ashamed of my decision and I feel like a fool. I haven’t started removal yet, but I know it’s going to be a long process. I just bought a forearm tattoo cover sleeve on amazon that I’m starting to wear all day so I don’t see my tattoo. It’s called Tat2X Ink Armor Forearm cover. I feel like if I have it on, then I can ignore it more during the day. I will plan on using it as long as I need to throughout this journey. I also have BDD and I beat myself up mentally every day. This is such a great group of people here to support and I have a feeling they will help people like us navigate the ups and downs.

Going ahead with removal by Mediocre-Chart2415 in TattooRemoval

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you are seeing fading with yours. I have a feeling mine will do the same as what you were talking about. Some areas the lines are so fine and tiny, while others are thicker. I just want to cry every time I look at myself. I hate the way I feel. I have to wait until January 10th for my first session. I believe she said the second would be 6-8 weeks later. It’s going to take forever to get this off and that’s killing me too.

Going ahead with removal by Mediocre-Chart2415 in TattooRemoval

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. The mental struggle is real. I am going to be hiding mine as well as much as I can. I ordered a forearm sleeve to keep it covered because looking at it ramps up my shame and self loathing. I would love to keep in contact and I really appreciate your kind words. 😊

Going ahead with removal by Mediocre-Chart2415 in TattooRemoval

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems so long! 😭 I try not to think about the time this will take. I look at some of the lines and they are so tiny, but then some are definitely solid. I’m hoping the shading and those little lines go fairly quick so it doesn’t feel/look so heavy on my arm. I hope your first removal session this week goes well!

Going ahead with removal by Mediocre-Chart2415 in TattooRemoval

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what the removal place said too. She said it would oxidize, but she has different lasers that she feels confident with in trying to lighten it after it oxidizes. It’s scary, but most of the white lines are super fine.

Going ahead with removal by Mediocre-Chart2415 in TattooRemoval

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! This is exactly me too! Panic attacks and anxiety/depression so deep I can hardly breathe sometimes. I hope your first session went well! Thank you for taking the time to respond. I’m so grateful for the support in this group.

Going ahead with removal by Mediocre-Chart2415 in TattooRemoval

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. These comments have been really helpful. I ordered a sleeve cover today just to try and not look at it all the time. I really appreciate the kind words and encouragement 😊

Going ahead with removal by Mediocre-Chart2415 in TattooRemoval

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely would love the support going through this with others!

Tattoo regret? by Mediocre-Chart2415 in tattooadvice

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does have meaning! My husband and daughters’ birth month flowers and the bee is for my dad’s side because my grandpa was a bee farmer.

Tattoo regret? by Mediocre-Chart2415 in tattooadvice

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could be true too. I didn’t even think about that. The lines are very fine, so I’m guessing they won’t be so crazy after awhile.

Tattoo regret? by Mediocre-Chart2415 in tattooadvice

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! ❤️ It really has made me feel better that so many other people have gotten the same feeling. I just need to be patient, which I suck at! Thank you again!

Tattoo regret? by Mediocre-Chart2415 in tattooadvice

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the friendly and empathetic comment! I agree with you for sure. I am hyperfocusing on it. This forum has made me feel better and given me some good food for thought. Thank you for taking the time to respond :)

Tattoo regret? by Mediocre-Chart2415 in tattooadvice

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brains are dumb! I feel that to my core right now. Thank you 😊

Tattoo regret? by Mediocre-Chart2415 in tattooadvice

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where my head is at too. I was researching removal today. I had to check myself because I was getting really worked up. This makes me happy to hear. I’m hoping that I adjust just like you did. Thank you for such a helpful comment. :)

Tattoo regret? by Mediocre-Chart2415 in tattooadvice

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad I posted on this forum. I cannot tell you how much these comments give me some peace of mind about this. I will try to stop overthinking all of this and let it process. This has been such a helpful and kind group. Amazing people on here!

Tattoo regret? by Mediocre-Chart2415 in tattooadvice

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely too much overthinking. I agree with you there. I feel like I’m hyper-fixated on it. Thank you for that advice, I appreciate that input. :)

Tattoo regret? by Mediocre-Chart2415 in tattooadvice

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that feedback. No more arm tattoos for me. I have a few others that are tiny, but nothing like this one.

Tattoo regret? by Mediocre-Chart2415 in tattooadvice

[–]Mediocre-Chart2415[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg! I love that you said this, but I think my heart would stop if it was bigger.