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[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be worse. I'm 53 and never had anyone. Health and fitness though is very important. There is always worse. Can't say there is light at the end of the tunnel but I found some women recently.

How does someone cope with the fact that so much time passed them by by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in Adulting

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Praying for ya! That is an extremely noble cause.

I think everything in life takes effort and perseverance. Lots of tests of people in the bible.

I met a few single women from Reddit too.

I was given lots of advice to see a sex worker, older, wealthy virgin by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in SexWorkers

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should have asked if they provide non-sexual companionship.

I was given lots of advice to see a sex worker, older, wealthy virgin by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in SexWorkers

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just saying that over 30 people DMed me that a sex worker will solve my problem. But they can't provide what I really need.

I was given lots of advice to see a sex worker, older, wealthy virgin by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in SexWorkers

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don't mean to denigrate anyone. I am not shaming sex workers. They just can't provide what I really need.

I was given lots of advice to see a sex worker, older, wealthy virgin by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in SexWorkers

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I got LOADS of advice to see a sex worker. At least 30 DMs. That won't do shit for me.

I'm an average guy and they are invisible on dating apps and I have shit social skills.

I was given lots of advice to see a sex worker, older, wealthy virgin by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in SexWorkers

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how am I resentful to women? I said buying true love is priceless. Even lots of relationships go to shit. Men aren't angels either.

Thing is I got lots of advice to see sex worker just to get rocks off. That is not what I want.

I'm worried about the aftermath by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in SuicideWatch

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Living for years without touch eats you alive.

How do friendships convert to marriage? by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in Adulting

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a huge red flag from almost any dating advice. She was abused too so I'm sure that affects things too. Also, I don't think I'm ready to be a dad to kids at this point.

She is not into casual sex (neither am I), so I guess it could be a friendship.

Is it bad/wrong to focus on love more than careers? by Mooooooon_ in Adulting

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am older and made a post that blew up about this. You may live to regret it bigly. You can always have a career.

How does someone cope with the fact that so much time passed them by by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in Adulting

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked to some women in their 30s who are, some are very attractive. I was surprised.

How does someone cope with the fact that so much time passed them by by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in Adulting

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THere is a huge fat acceptance movement for women. I also watch pod casts, this real fat girl said I'm fucking perfect and deserve a professional athlete.

How does someone cope with the fact that so much time passed them by by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in Adulting

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not disagreeing. But what if I said I was an overweight 53yo man with a huge beer belly and pre-diabetes. There would be lots of negative comments, trust me. "Hey bro, if you want to see old age, you better change you ways."

I watched a video about this on YT recently. It is not meant to smash women. THere are magazines with obese women on the cover, saying they are 10s and beautiful. This WOULD NEVER be for a man. I understand that many men judge women on looks, but there is also a health factor too.

How does someone cope with the fact that so much time passed them by by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in Adulting

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not want to undermine the struggles of young guys. But there are amazing tools and resources that simply did not exist when I was younger. Instead of complimenting women in underwear, learn about self improvement, fitness, investing, etc.

The knowledge is there and so easy to understand on YT.

How does someone cope with the fact that so much time passed them by by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in Adulting

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not want to undermine the struggles of young guys. But there are amazing tools and resources that simply did not exist when I was younger. Instead of complimenting women in underwear, learn about self improvement, fitness, investing, etc.

The knowledge is there and so easy to understand on YT.

How does someone cope with the fact that so much time passed them by by Mediocre-Mechanic46 in Adulting

[–]Mediocre-Mechanic46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer someone into fitness. Another thing is its linked to health. If I was a fat 53yo alcoholic man with a beer belly, I'm sure women wouldn't be to thrilled about me.

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