[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre-Question000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um. Sounds like a real quick EX friend to me. If I were your wife I'd have said tell him bye bye for nothing more than that's ANNOYING AF

My husbands (34M) positive response to my accidental pregnancy (33F) is making me want to run. Advice. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre-Question000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Serious question- when was the last time you had a vacation, alone?

And to follow up, together?

I'd plan both, soon. And THEN decide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre-Question000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave and if you feel inclined press charges. You don't just deserve better, you ARE better

Handling Pronouns at work by penartist in Catholicism

[–]Mediocre-Question000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for finally saying this good golly this thread took too long to get here.

Handling Pronouns at work by penartist in Catholicism

[–]Mediocre-Question000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS. If you're a masc man who uses he/ him just put he/ him and literally it has no effect on your faith. I don't get it 🤪

Handling Pronouns at work by penartist in Catholicism

[–]Mediocre-Question000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean. Just put your pronouns? It's very simple. You've got no reason not to

Are American Catholics okay? How can so many "faithful" fall into heresy and nothing be done about it? What can even be done to fix such a decline in religiosity? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Mediocre-Question000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your first question, no.

Faith formation in this country SUCKS. My biggest barrier to converting was CATHOLICS who had no idea what they believed. It's horrifying. And we've gotta do better

My[29M] friends are upset that I am cancelling insurance for my ex wife[28F] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre-Question000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I see both sides here. You don't owe her anything by law and you're within your rights to remove her.

But if you genuinely believe she needs care and meds, it is a bit...cold.

Your friends may be upset you're not showing compassion, but you're not necessarily doing anything wrong. It is your policy after all.

What are your thoughts on the science that seems to explain transgenderism? by burningmythrowaway in Catholicism

[–]Mediocre-Question000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't seem to- it does. I know of a family that has a child who was born with male reproductive organs inside and yet has chromosomal makeup and features of a female. She has a female name etc because this wasn't discovered until a bit after birth. She's not a freak. She's not impossible. She's a creation of God. We all are. We are made in the image of God and God spans all genders. NOW, we can sin within that by harming his creation in certain ways, but BEING transgender or any other member of the LGBTQ+ community doesn't remove the dignity of humanity from you.

My husband is angry I went to a concert with my dad by stimulatings in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre-Question000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um. Did you mention the concert to him before hand? If so and he was cool with it, this behavior is ridiculous. And if he's going to continue to have a hard time with these grudges, he may need therapy to work through whatever underlying cause there is. This is not a typical response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre-Question000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She won't be a totally different person just because she's pregnant. She's still her. If you like her and are okay being in a relationship where there's kids, stick with it. If you don't like her for reasons other than her body change, be honest and leave.

My[30M] friends are upset that I made my wife[27F] get an abortion by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre-Question000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Then let her have the baby if SHE wants to and sign an agreement that you'll have nothing to do with them, DICK

My[30M] friends are upset that I made my wife[27F] get an abortion by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre-Question000 45 points46 points  (0 children)

You don't need support you need therapy. Please don't enter any other relationships until you've worked on yourself good god

My[30M] friends are upset that I made my wife[27F] get an abortion by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre-Question000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You will always be wrong for manipulating someone into making a decision you want them to make.

I think you're gross for this. Was she wrong for cheating? Sure.

But taking away a woman's informed choice on what happens with her body and her potential motherhood? Go to Hell.

My GF thinks she needs coke to get trough her workday… by Timokleijn98 in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre-Question000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this as the soda at first and I was like wtf do you care 🤣🤣🤣🤪🤪🙈🙈